Zigner
Senior Member, Non-Attorney
You might want to contact a domestic violence organization and ask about having a victim's advocate handle communications for you (or with you).
Excellent suggestion.
You might want to contact a domestic violence organization and ask about having a victim's advocate handle communications for you (or with you).
You might want to contact a domestic violence organization and ask about having a victim's advocate handle communications for you (or with you).
I reached out to several originally, but not many wanted to work with me. I never called the police when he acted out physically and he never laid a hand on me (very careful not to do that).
Those "detox" things don't work that well especially when the testing is done by a method other than fast response test cups.
I contacted several domestic violence organizations and attorneys in the area. Hopefully one will be able to help me.
Something came up this weekend that has me even more determined to file the contempt. I contacted his lawyer Thursday afternoon stating that it was time for the first drug test. The lawyer responded within an hour that my ex had been notified. This means that he had a 24 hour window to take the test. That didn't happen. Also (I realize this may not be admissible in court), I found an order in my ex's email account for a detox program that allows you to pass a drug test. He has used this before to pass a drug test. He is basically doing everything he can to give me the finger regarding the consent.
Without explicit consent from your ex, you should not be accessing his email account. That is a computer crime.
I understand that was wrong and it was not done intentionally. (He would use my computer to check his email and he saved the password. My account occasionally logs out and I have to make an effort not to log into his account because the email addresses are very similar.) This is not something I would share outside this forum.
I understand that was wrong and it was not done intentionally. (He would use my computer to check his email and he saved the password. My account occasionally logs out and I have to make an effort not to log into his account because the email addresses are very similar.) This is not something I would share outside this forum.
Why would you maintain anything related to his account on your computer?
Frankly, your protestation and excuses do not ring true (on this matter).