Recent content by ADR123

Thank you all. Really! Just listening to all of your opinions and knowledge has been helpful.

Is this something I should research?

True. Thank you for taking your time to discuss with me. I do appreciate all your feedback.

Clearly. I agree.

I know it is hard to see the whole picture with only one side of the story. I was wondering if I had good reason to take him to small claims court to attempt to recover some of this financial loss.

I do not know the answer to that.

I have paid for everything. The baby is on my insurance, I have paid all his doctor co-pays, bills from his birth, all his necessities. I am in no way trying to be unfair about this. I just want things to be fair. Visitation and child support should be fair between both parents. Right?

He has never asked for a few days. He has asked for a few hours. I take the baby to his house and pick him up at the time he asks me to. I pack his diaper bag, milk, food, and play pen.

Yes. He can see the baby whenever he would like to. It has been his choice to avoid him.

Yes. It is very much like that, but he presented himself as divorced. He presented himself as an honest man. His wife and I were friendly with each other. I am more shocked over his behavior and all the lies I have uncovered since I left the house. Imagine - I thought we were building an honest...

Which I do not interfere with at all. I want him in the baby's life. He has shown otherwise with his actions unfortunately. Thank you for your discussion with me. It is hard to explain the entire situation in this type of forum and I apologize if my questions lacked detail.

That is how I feel. I feel like I was scammed. Thank you for your advice. Just having an outsider listen to my story has helped me. I will keep you posted. We are currently in a child support case where he doesn't want to pay and he wants 50/50 custody to avoid paying.

Yes, I believe her name had to be listed on it. It is still dishonest. I would have never given him the money if I knew he was married. I would have never been engaged or had a child or lived with him. Does his intent to be dishonest with me and take money from me matter in the court's eyes?

His wife did not live in this home. Her name was on the paperwork I found through a public search and listed them as a married couple. He did not buy the home for her. She never lived in it. I lived in the home with him for 5 months before the baby and I left. I found out that he was married and...

Yes. She knew about us. I did not know they were still married. They were separated but legally married and they both lied to me. Apparently I was the only person who did not know because I have since found out that the other members of his family knew this. It was a secret they all kept from...