Recent content by audster

Yet another arguement to let the federal government handle CS, Visitation and Custody. :)

Thank you Somedude, I couldn't have said it better! But what do we know, we're "just men"! Beth, Beth, Beth....Your missing the whole point....once more. No one is "chasing your a**" around. You were giving what I, and at least some others, as bad advice... I thought I could be hard...

Actually, some of my best friends are single mothers...I don't have a problem with CP's....just the ones that, as Stepmother 65 pointed out, feel that their life should revolve around an overactive reproductive system. I have a problem with a custodial Mom who leaves the Dad, finds some other...

In $ we trust.... :mad: ...And I can't help but notice that you said "the order was amended to meet MY new needs" This has what to do with the child's needs? :eek:

yes, that may be true, and now your ex, if he is an intelligent man, would hammer you for contempt because I'm sure the judge won't care what the IRS said :D

ohhh....whatever.... 1) Where do you get 3 kids, I only read about twins. Did I miss something? 2) Try to see things from the other side, Ok? Something very similar happened to me once. In my (much) younger and (much) wilder days a girl said "I'm Pregnant, and I'ts yours". To which I...

maybe she's related to the anxiety prone hairdresser who cut of her fingers in a fit of depression? Or ww can set her up with King Sol :D

ok, at least you didn't try to paint the poor guy with the "deadbeat" brush, that's good. Since you stated that the twins consider your husband "Daddy", isn't a better solution just to drop CS and have current hubby adopt twins?

If you've named him as the father he has the right to contest paternity...whether he had a lawyer or not! If either party contests paternity, the judge will order as DNA test which will clear up everything. If he is biodad then after paternity is established he will be ordered to pay support...

Hell, I had to call my wife over to read this one....If I'm livign with all this anger, why am I now laughing my a** off? no, it's not, but is a sin to steal, which is what these Mom's are doing. I think keeping a part time job should be a requirment of the welfare system. Pal, I've...

Now That is a sentiment that I can get righTeous about!!!! CAN I GET AN AMEN

Ohhh pleeeeze..... Love has nothng to do with it. My ex has come to me numerous time whining and moaning about her and her new husbands misery.....and in the (as you put it) wise words of Judge Judy,I DID tell her "you picked Him! Not my f**king problem!" If she cannot handle the "burden"...

OK, hmmmmmm.... Guessing s/he is NOT NCP!!!!! King Sol (Queen Sol, maybe?), There are numerous cases out there where CS does not even go to the child. I'm not saying every CP is out for Blood Money, there are good and bad! But, sadly, it is my form opinion that this is true in the majority...

I'm curious as to whether King Sol is a CP or NCP...or maybe a CSE/ public aid employee?

You need to be a little clearer about the insurance thing. If I understand you right (and I might not be) youu don't like the way you had to spend your CS and you want reimbursed for it? If he already paid CS, you can't have him pay it again. iIf he was court ordered to pay uninsured medical...