Recent content by classyica

I never said a judge would do what my son wanted. I said a judge would take it into consideration. My ex wanted 6 months out of the year, but didn't want to deal with school everyday. My have suggested that he see his father at other times during the school year and that was the whole reason...

My child is not in a father less home. Father hood is more than providing a sperm sample. Secondly, my child's best interests! My ex overdosed the day after my son came home 2 years ago and had a massive stroke as a result. Had I been able to afford it at that time this wouldn't be a issue...

I'm not asking for him to make that decision and I don't want him to make that decision at his age. But most judges (even in Ca) would take his feelings into consideration. In CA if a child is over the age of 6 they go before a mediator to have their concerns addressed and they are taken into...

The 30 days is how the order reads now. He at one point requested my son for 6 months out of the year. I told him I didn't think that was reasonable, right now. He dropped it for a couple of months, came back with the 3 month summer break. I compromised with 1 1/2-2 months. Now we're back...

That part I understand. But why should I have to drag my son across the country everytime my ex decides he isn't happy with the current order. I have been in compliance with the order from the get go, he hasn't. Wouldn't it make more sense for a local court and judge to talk to the child in...

Thanks for your replies. I am not sure what to do at this point. This business of threatening me with court because things aren't going his way is getting old real quick. There are other underlying issues and the order needs to be changed/updated regardless of the visitation time issue. My...

Long story short. I have 3 year old child support/visitation papers issued in Ca. My child's father agreed to let me move to the state of PA, which we did. Court papers give him 30 days a year and he is now asking for more. I am not totally against him having more time, but we have gone from...