Recent content by crystalk

AGAIN "you can calim DV" Ok, you people are ruthless. Yea I broke my finger myself and yea I tossed myself down the stairs with my child, just so I could "claim dv" exactly why I am locking this too, its an absolute joke, people post their oppinions here and everyone judges you on that, I dont...

I felt the need to defend myself because I came on here for advice and got nothing but condecending attitudes from most. I gave the information that I thought was needed. And yes now I feel like I need to defend myself because I came here for help and got very little of that, and only got...

Umm, Ok here I was posting because of judgemental people on here, yes you dont know the whole story, I hadn't intended to drag into account the 7 times I have had him pulled from my house by the police because of abuse or the fact that after a planned pregnancy and to get married, and that he...

I came here to ask for advice and got few people giving advice but more people passing judgment on me. Heck I think some of you would have found fault with a saint. I think when someone turns to a place like this, its obviously because they dont know where to begin, but to be judged like you...

I am taking him to court to get steady visitation, and possibly look into supervised visitation as well. I dont like her not seeing him, but if he is going to be around, he is going to be steady in her life, and make dang sure he is actually watching out for her when she is there, changing her...

To those of you who feel her dad was being a "good guy" in taking her to the er. A "good guy" would have sent home the perscribed cream the ER doc gave to them, a "good guy" would have called me and told me about it after the visit. A "good guy" would have footed the bill for himself when he...

Thank you for your help, I did have him served. If problems persist during my awaiting a hearing, is it possible to change my request on my court documents? I am getting to the point where I am being harrassed so much I dont feel like he can even care for her properly, he is acting more like 5...

I dont think what I said was said properly, had he brought her to the er because of her rash I would have understood completely. But, he brought her to the er to accuse my fiancee of molestation. The Dss investigator found no evidence of this, and the doc found that what they were claiming was...

what if she works and he stays home? I feel like this is his way to get out of paying. He collects ssi but is in NO WAY unable to work.

What is the name of your state? Massachusetts. I am currently having a lot of trouble with my ex and his current gf. I found out 2 days ago that my daughter was brought to the ER almost a month ago, by them with alligations of sexual abuse towards my fiancee. Dss was called in and was there...

With what I have experienced, and the very little CS I recieve, going by a % of his income, its barely enough to cover diapers and wipes on a monthly basis, nevermind include anything else she may need. If they work and make more $ your able to get more CS, so mor $ means less expense for you...

Massachusetts. Currently there is a court order for my ex to pay support, he collects ssi for a disability, and when we went to court the first time, he had a job. He is now not working and he has since had another child with another person. Can a judge allow him to not pay support without me...