Recent content by father411

I do the color coding, and my son is reminded when he will be at the other house. His doctor has agreed that the less change, the better (hence my solution is better). My son works better with days (not times), and while the colorcoding has led to some small improvement, my wife found him one...

It will go from (2 weeks as it is now) Monday morning to Wednesday after school with mom. (switch) Wednesday after school until bedtime with dad. (switch) Wednesday night to Friday after school with mom. (switch) Friday after school with dad until Monday morning with dad (switch) Monday morning...

Actually, he wasn't doing that well. Because of the small length of time, my son would become frustrated that he had to leave so soon. My ex liked the arrangement, and I went along with it (once again, I did not know my rights, and was worried about "rocking the boat" with my ex.) The summer...

I agree with you that it would be better to be able to have both of us with my child at the same time, and we do that when it comes to some events. The problem with this is not on my end, but on my ex's end. My child is used to not having both his mom and me around himat the same time...

To answer the questions, I should have been more clear. I do not want sole custody. Even though I could do sole custody, I do not want that, as it would put my son in a similar situation, and take him away from the other part of his family. I want joint physical custody, with my ex taking my...

I agree with the other members when it comes to getting a court order establishing your rights. You have every right to see how much your ex is paying in terms of child support. Also, you have rights to see your child at least every other weekend and on a school day after class (These are...

What is the name of your state? Florida Hi. I am in the process of going back to court with my ex over our child visitation. My child is autistic, and my ex is primary. My ex refused to let me have my child overnight since he had been born because in her words "the change would confuse him"...

yet more info The order was signed earlier this year, and I do understand that I can get the info from school, the doctor is a bit different because of the fact that I will not know about appointments that my child has unless my ex tells me about them. I am trying to find ways to modify the...

More info I am sorry. I should have been more specific in my first post. After mediation, she did agree to do every other weekend and we do have joint legal. What I was basing my idea of modificataion is that she is "breaking" the agreement because she is not giving me legal info on our child...

What is the name of your state?undefinedWhat is the name of your state? Florida Hi, Let me first say that any advice given is truly appreciated. I have an ex girlfriend with whom I had a child wih. She stayed with her mother, but saw me reguarly for two to three days every week. Due to major...