Recent content by fightingabuser

What is the name of your state?Oregon. On Aug 2 I gave my 30 day notice in writting to move. On Aug. 15th my managers new associate called to set an appointment to bring a person to my property to look at it, okay. That day I arived at my place, I was in the processes of moving. A women shpwed...

What is the name of your state? Oregon I am looking into a place to rent, its a house with 1 acre, but I can't do anything to this land, most is river and an iland. It has large shop on the land which is also owned by the owner it sits in the yard. The owner says either I pay extra for this...

What is the name of your state?Oregon Is it legal in Oregon to ask for the first, last and deposit. I know when I was a manager this could not happen, your last was your deposit. I am trying to rent out a place by a person that is asking for all of this.

What is the name of your state?Oregon My ex was arrested 3 months ago for violting the stalking order but the DA dropped the case his story against the kids and mine, he used th children to deliver a check/pictures to me. Can he have this expunged now or do you have to wait a certain time to do it.

What is the name of your state?Oregon Is it legal for a parent to tape phone conversations between him and our child? Last week our daughter was talkinmg to hre father for maybe a minute she heard a beep then her voice being played back, she aked him if he was rcording their conversations and he...

What is the name of your state?Oregon I have sole custody of our children he did not want to go to court during the divorce because he did not want the judge to hear about his abuse towards me and the girls. Ihave tried everything possible to make him see that he needs to change his abusive...

What is the name of your state?Oregon I have a tmporary restraining order against me ex for me, I tried to gt it for my young daughters also because of abuse. The judge stated that he can not overide the visitation that has alrady been put into place by another attorney. I then got a...

What is the name of your state?Oregon What can anyone tell me about a Guardian Ad Litem. My children want to tell there story about there abusive father. I have sole custody and now is has filed a motion for him to have sole custody. He is both physically and emotionall abusive to them and has a...

What is the name of your state?Oregon I divorced a abuser both to me and my kids? Now he is fighting me for sole custody. How far back should I go and bring up in court, besides the abuse. I do have a lot of his e-mails to and from women that he has affairs with while we were married. I also...

What is the name of your state? Oregon Problem, my children refuse to visit their father because of mental and physical abuse towards them. Kick in the face, cuncussion, broken tooth, drinking and driving, calling them retards and fu** bitches, I have heard these things as well from him to them...

What is the name of your state? OR I have a restraining order on my ex for abuse, documented by my daughters DR. CSD cse that was undecided, counselor records that they are fraid of their father and my daughter is depressed and has anxiety attacks when she speaks to her father. The girls are 8...

What is the name of your state?Oregon I have two beautiful daughter and I have sole custody of them. Their father has visitation but they do not go due to abuse. He has his mother call my house but the girls refuse to talk to her also. We have a temporary restraining order against her son...

What is the name of your state? OR I was scheduled to go to court Monday the 23rd for a hearing that my ex requested against the restraining order tht I have on him. I had all my witnesses lined up, the subpeonas delivered, all the medical records, counselors etc. Then my ex and his attorney try...

What is the name of your state? Oregon I pay child support to my 19 year old that is in college. The problem is my son doesnt get grades higher than a 2. nd the paper work states that he must eern a C or better to continue getting support. Do I call the agency to inform them of this. His grades...

What is the name of your state?Oregon I have a confusing mess on my hands. I have 2 small children and I have sole custody. I also have a restraining order on their father which lives 3 blocks away, he moved there to try and control us. I did have a stalking order against him but lost the case...