Recent content by Fl Cat7

There really is No way to force a large lump sum payment. I understand your wanting it, but unless you can show he has the money laying around, it is not going to happen.(Even then it is not easy) My ex use to owe my about 35,000. A after not making ANY payments for almost a year he was arrested...

Update My friend called CSE/DOR today and talked to someone with more knowlege and they told her as soon as DCF sends confirmation of her request that they stop the cash they would send her the 5,000. Also if they did give her the cash assistance once it was stoped to call the accounting dept...

Sorry to say they are right. It takes CSE here about 8 to 12 months after he stops paying before they drag him in to court. And he lives less than a mile away. If he is the kind that has to be forced to pay NEVER count on any money until it is in your hand. My ex has paid $24.55 in the last 6...

First call CS and see if they will continue to collect for you. If he pays say 300. per month and 50. for back support then he will pay 350. per month to arrears. If they will not contact your local court and ask them if the have a pro se office or legal aid. They will also have a law library...

NY does not matter. You will file in the county the child has been living in. Do you have him in school or daycare? Have you taken him to a doctor for check ups? Claimed him on your taxes? If you can show that the child has been living with you full time for the last 10 month then custody...

I don't know about Ohio but I'm in Florida and my ex tries a downward mod aleast once a year due to "medical problems" (but since he never pays I don't know why he bothers) and they always tell him until he has medical documention that he can not work his support stands. Voluntary under...

Can anyone tell me if the law I quoted is right? It seems to me that this is a way for the government to steal money from children. They knew where her ex was the whole time but did next to nothing to make him pay support until she was forced into a corner, then they want to keep all the money...

He called her and told her then she called the court to verify.

Thank you for your answers. She had no intention of continuing the cash after April. She has no family and just needed a little help to get back on her feet. I think it sad that DOR was unwilling to go after her ex until they had something to gain. She did call to stop the cash (they still have...

Who gets the money? What is the name of your state?FL A friend of mine has been raising her children with no help from her ex. She was in a car accident and lost her job. She applied for cash assistance because they told her they would fix her car and help her find another job. She has never...

Husband on the fence. My husband still does not know what he wants to do. He was disabled this past May and he is undecided if he should fight for what is right or just take less quickly and be done with it. If he knew what the time limits are it would help. Does anyone know what the statue of...

What is the name of your state?PA I'm trying to find a lawyer that did wills and probably retired before 2002 and name was Mauger (or something close). The Chester county bar only list current members. If anyone can help that would be great. Thanks Cat

Yes he has SSI lawyer, he has appointment Friday. Appeal is I think next step. The change from can to can't work was from reconsideration. They turn down his application (said he could still work) then we aked for reconsideration. Which they said they agree he can't work at this time but don't...

What is the name of your state?Fl My husband has applied for SSDI. His app they turned down and said he could still work, or the reconsideration they admit he can not work but don't know if it will last 12 months or more (it has already been 9 months) is this a good thing (the change from can to...

I am so MAD My husbands cousin called today and asked if my husband was going to sign the release the lawyer sent and pay the estate taxes. My husband will not talk to this cousin. When I told him my husband would follow the will but will not sign the release or give up some of his shares, he...