Recent content by Fordgirl45

I don't want to say which state I am in just incase he reads these sites.

I will also be going for alimony under the laws in my state.

I would love that but I cannot afford it. My husband abandoned me and hasn't given me anything. I am forced to pay everything and he walks away. I want this done and I cannot afford what they want and pay all the bills I was left with.

I am doing a pro se divorce and I am desperately trying to find out what legalese is needed for me to collect part of my husband's pension and thrift savings plan for it to be legally divided in our divorce? I also will be doing a QDRO on my own. Married 18 years. Is there anyone that could...