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What is the name of your state?Ca I volunteered for my child's field trip. It happens to fall on My x's day. I figured since it was during school hours it would be no big deal. So i get a call from my x stating that he wanted to volunteer to go and now he can't since I volunteered. ( he has...

What is the name of your state?California I hired an attorney to modify visitation of my 5yr old son. I am cp. This was two months ago. My attorney stated that since both my ex and I live in a different county then original order was filed that my best bet would be to have her file a motion to...

stealth... Yes I do try to follow that motto. Here's more info. THe person that my ex has been sending lately to pick up my son is his brother who is an ex-con druggee. This person spent two years in jail on carjacking and has a history of drug abuse and violence. This person has also been late...

What is the name of your state?California Two questions. My first question is do I have to let someone other then my ex pick up our child? Our visitation orders state that respondent shall pick up and drop off child(ex being respondent). Second question is how long do I have to wait for ex to...

Been there, Done that. I know it is very frustrating, but your not trying for him your trying for the little boy asking "what are the chances He will pick me up this Friday?" I would be on the phone with my ex and once I get him on the phone I would hand our child the phone so he can explain if...

Regular visitation is at 6pm. Chrismas Eve(holiday it was 9pm) I understand what you are going through. I have a control freak ex who wants everything convenient for him> only follows court order when convenient for him but doesn't when not convenient. I sympathize with you in regards to not...

What is the name of your state?California I am in the process of modifying a visitation order. I need to file a motion to transfer since original order was in a different county. Any ideas on how to go about that? I've gone on court sites but doesn't show a motion to transfer form or option...

more info Sorry. Current orders state my ex husband get our child on Saturday from 8am-3pm on my weekends. Originally this was set up because I had to work on those Saturdays. I don't any longer. So I would like that taken out so he has his weekends and I have mine. Also it states that my...

What is the name of your state?California Hi. I am going to meet with a lawyer tomorrow to discuss modifying visitation. I currently have physical custody of child, joint legal. I was wondering if anyone has any pointers on what to ask the attorney during my consultation. I want to get the most...

more info My son is fine with being dropped off right before dad picks him up. He prefers that I pick him up straight from school so he can come home and relax a little, have a snack etc. When I drop him off at the daycare he plays with his friends until his dad picks him up. I pay the day care...

What is the name of your state?California Our court order states that my ex picks up child from daycare at 5:30pm. I am off work in time to pick up my child straight from school. I then drop my child off at daycare by 5:30 on my ex's visitation days(ex refuses to pick up from my house) My ex...

Several times to no avail. Goes in one ear out the other. It seems when I notice that my child is late consistently and mention something. He makes the child late even more often. Ex constantly complains about having to drop child off or pick him up. I offer to pick child up the night before so...

Child in preschool was consistently late when ex dropped child off. It is a pattern. CHild is always extremely tired when coming back from overnights. This was a pattern in preschool, so I put my child in kindergarten in the pm so ex can get him there on time.Still frequently late I will not...

Child's daycare is twenty minutes from ex home. School would be same distance. Court order states ex is to drop child off at daycare at 8am on overnight days. Ex is consistently late. Not by 5-10 minutes but by 1 or 2 hours. Child in preschool was consistently late when ex dropped child off. It...

What is the name of your state?California I would like to modify visitation to every other weekend and a dinner visitation during week. Right now court orders state ex has my child overnight during the week. The orders were put in place when child was 2. Nw my child is starting school and I do...