Recent content by iamu3

misslawli: ah i see. SO as it stands with just a verbal basically he doesn't have to do anything. so we need to see about getting joint custody and visitation so that way when he acts up she has some sort of recorse. thank you very much. yes i also saw that you were in arizona :) thank you so...

misslawli: thank you for your advice. i am more than happy to fill in blanks if i am asked. very informative. i was a bit confused on one point tho, you said that the paternity acknowledgement gives him equal rights, but then you said that until there is a court order for visitation he doesn't...

so, if she showed up on his doorstep and said "i'm here to take ___ to the park" and he said no. then what? nobody including myself want to make this a big terrible deal for the child. everybody just wants to be able to talk like normal people. we are thinking that we might want to fight for...

i am willing to hear legal advice from people who are serious about helping others. if you are one of them i would be glad to take you seriouly. anybody else i will assume is just some quack on here trying to give people bad advice because they obviously are not professionals and probably don't...

again to chelle0511 if you have nothing constructive to say then go away. i will be reporting you to the admin for harassment. how dare you say that i am just making stuff up to make it sound more interresting and say that i'm hopeless. i'm beginning to feel hopeless because it doesn't seem...

i apologize to everybody else for the outburst. this has been a very emotional time for my girlfriend and myself and her family. I should have just directed those people to the terms and conditions of using these forums, specifically the part on "Use of the Forums is subject to our Terms and...

ok first of all i thought this was a place of professionals. i did not log in here to get some sort of lecture. i thought i could get some constructive information. first of all to chelle0511, i used the term 'it' because i did not feel that it was anybodys business whether 'the child' was a boy...

What is the name of your state? Arizona, Tucson ok i'll try to make this as simple as possible. my girlfriend had a child with a man that she was not married to. when they split up they verbally agreed that he could take care of it better at the time but that she or her family would be able to...