Recent content by ICUB4ER

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Kansas My ex quit paying child support and spousal support and disappeared a few months ago, and I recently found out that he has moved to Texas. I can't afford an attorney and need to know what to do/how to find out if he is employed anywhere...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My ex hasn't had any contact with our 12 yr old for 9 months, and no contact with our 14 yr old for 16 months. It is my understanding that CS is based not only on income, but also on the percentage of time the child spends with each parent. If that is...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My ex and I have 2 daughters ages 12 and 14. He hasn't had any contact with our 14 yr old for 16 months, and no contact with our 12 yr old for 9 months. Our 12 yr old had to have brain surgery in February and ex never showed up to any of her drs appts. ...

What is the name of your state? KS I posted this in the wrong forum before..... I recently got a divorce, and as soon as a neighbor that was friends with my ex found out, he started harrassing me. At least twice a week the police are at my house because "someone" is driving too fast down the...

What is the name of your state? KS I recently got a divorce, and as soon as a neighbor that was friends with my ex found out, he started harrassing me. At least twice a week the police are at my house because "someone" is driving too fast down the street, driving wrecklessly, etc and if they...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My sons boss told him today that he had received an income withholding order for child support for my son. My son has known about the child for the last year and was trying to get the mother to let him have regular time with the child but was told by the...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My divorce trial was on June 8th and we finally got everything settled that day. I packed up all of the property that was awarded to my ex, but it is STILL sitting here. How long do I have to keep this stuff around tripping over it? I would like to get it...

What is the name of your state? Kansas When I filed for divorce on October 5th, 2005, my attorney said that she had put a "hold" on the 401K funds so that stbx couldn't empty the account. I was just able to view the account online and stbx has been on a spending spree. On December 14, 2005, he...

What is the name of your state? Kansas Temp. order only states reasonable visitation. I just called stbx to see when he was bringing dd home from her weekend with him. He was supposed to have her home at 2 pm. He told me that if I wanted her I had to come to his house 30 miles away and get her...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My attorney finally got a court order for one of the vehicles, I was supposed to get the 91 GMC truck. I went to stbx's house this evening with the court order and a Sheriffs Officer to get the truck. The officer told stbx that we were there to pick up the...

What is the name of your state? Kansas Stbx and I have a second attempt at settlement on the 16th, if we can't settle then, we have a trial scheduled for June 8th. When he left, he went over a month with no contact with me or the children (girls ages 10 & 13). He was ordered in our temp order...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My stbx's girlfriend has kicked her husband out of their home and my stbx has moved in with her. The girlfriend has lost all four of her children to two of her three ex-husbands by being proven to be an unfit parent by the court. I have no idea what she...

What is the name of your state? Kansas My stbx and I have settled on everything EXCEPT alimony...he doesn't want to pay any. We were married 15 years as of February 9th, I have been a stay at home mom the entire marriage. I did do some volunteer work as an EMT for 2 years though, if that...

What is the name of your state? Kansas I just got home from an appointment with my attorney. STBX's attorney sent a settlement offer(whatta joke). There are some totally RIDICULOUS things in there! STBX wants shared custody with weekly exchanges(he lives in another county) and doesn't even...

State of Kansas Visitation is ordered as "reasonable visitation" - two girls ages 10 and 13 Stbx came over at 9 a.m. and told me that he was going to take my 10 yr old daughter this weekend. I told him that he had the girls last weekend and that this was my weekend and that he could have them...