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joke/reyna7 Hey thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. thanks, john

djohnson-thanks Thanks for the advice djohnson, I appreciate it. I've come to the conclusion that I am going to tell her. the affair went on for a few years. the latter 2 yrs I was trying to end it, but I couldnt' get out of it. djohnson would you believe I was going to end it, get baptized...

critterperson critterperson- Thank you your advice is truly appreciated.

critterperson Thanks for your advice you and nextwife have been very helpful. Others have expressed views, that is fine. I would not nor do I criticize anyone for what they have done as I have no way of knowing what drove them to do something. I'm beyond that so it doesn't bother me. I often...

ldij Actually, I'm no longer in denial. that is only a dream. thanks for your input

newlywed03 newlywed03, thanks for your input.

critterperson/ nextwife Thanks for responding. You are right. But, before I tell her I need to make sure her house will not be lost to someone else. I need to secure her future and my childrens future. If she throws me out after the fact, well so be it. I'm not one to make up excuses as I have...

THERE is no one better than my wife. SO I should seek a perfect woman to have an affair with??? Affairs are wrong. I knew it coming in, and I know it getting out.

snostar I dunno snostar, it depends. Sometimes I think I just want to tell her and let her Drop me like a rock as stated by veronicalouise. Sometimes I want to see if I can keep it a secret for as long as possible. someimes I want to take the child away from the other woman. other times I...

NO, my wife and children don't know yet. Hence the question, what do I do?? and How??

Nextwife She is currently in a relationship herself. she has two children with her current BF, one from her previous BF, and now mine. She volunteered a DNA test to prove it. But, I believe it is mine also. the child is very beautiful and distinctly different from the other children. But, I...

Hey Snostar Snostar, no I don't want to wait till **** hits the fan, But I also don't want to do anything without first getting legal, peer, advice. I have to believe my wife will rush into things trying to kill me and so forth. But, before she does that I need to make sure her and my childrens...

Thanks Nextwife Thanks for responding kindly nextwife. To answer your question, yes she did know. And that is an idea you gave me. I'm just kidding myself that my wife won't ever find out. But, if she does I want to be the one to tell her. And I want what little I/she has, house cars, small...

Thanks for replying nextwife, thanks. You know I don't doubt her at all. She just promised to keep it a secret. She isn't even asking for support. But, its the least I can do for the child I help bring into the world. I am however worried about the X factor. Meaning, what if things go south...

What is the name of your state? CA I had an affair with a woman who now has a child she says is mine. I believe she is right. Things are cordial between us and we are not at eachothers throat. Do I need to do anything to protect my wife and childrens home, savings account etc?? The woman I had...