Recent content by jacknjill

What is the name of your state? California Here's the issue. My mother is 69 and lived alone up until my brother and a friend moved in. My brother is to pay all utilities, phone, etc as his rent. His friend does not work and my mother felt sorry for him and said he can stay too. I should my...

:confused: What is the name of your state? California My neighbor is a single mother, who has 2 boys (6 and 12) from 2 different guys and one 17 year old daughter. She collects child support and when their dads come to pick them up, there's always a fight outside. I've known this woman and...

The husband lost his job.....doesn't make him a dead beat dad....Geezzz...what's with people.....not all dad's that are in arreages, are deadbeats!!!!

If you break it off with your husband, the X will WIN!!! and we don't want that.....My husband's X is the same way, to a T of what you said. It kills her that her children don't go running to her about us fighting or not getting along. That's because we don't show the children outwardly that...

Yes it is tragic. Without my financial support, love, unconditional acceptance of them...they would have NOTHING. I don't have to spend any $$ on these kids, take them on vacations, water-skiing, etc....I don't have to diddly squat for any of them...BUT I DO.....because these kids atleast...

She put herself in this financial distress. Before the divorce she worked, made $50,000 per year. etc, etc, When he left she fell apart. Tried to run him over with her car in a parking lot with her kids in the car....She called constantly telling him that she was taking him to the cleaners...

Thank you very much for saying this.....My point was not to throw myself in this woman's face. I was driving home a point tha WHWT needs to move on. My stepkids are great. I would and never have said anything bad about their mother (she shows them everyday through her actions, what type of...

I've read all yout posts and I must say you are the DUMBEST poster I've encountered. I bet you $1000 today that your X left your ass for a smarter, pretty, younger, better educated, more sophisticated, woman. And he needs a round of applause for leaving you.....CLAP, CLAP, CLAP, CLAP...HURRAY...

What is the name of your state?California. I went to my younger son's baseball practice at the park in our city. The games and practices are scheduled by the Little League Program in our town. The parking lot was full, so I parked my vehicle on the street. There were about 4 teams practicing...

Our experience in California: My husband has 50/50 custody, share legal/physical and pays child support. During the divorce, X gave him the right to take the tax deductions, which meant she would get the max CS allowed. Last year, X wanted to modify this to take the deductions herself, and...

What is the name of your state? Calif. Need to know how to find a business license on someone, doing business in Contra Costa County. I have an address, SS# and a name. I don't know the name of the business. anyone have any good links to try?? thanks in advance.

The poster is too busy shacking up with the next loser....the more kids she has the more $$ she can get......she's a typical uneducated, welfare recipient. Who want's to bet she's a welfare kid herself???

What is the name of your state? California. I need to know how to find a business license on someone. I have an address and SS# and a name. I went to various links but they were unclear. I don't know the name of the business. Any ideas, anyone?? thanks in advance.

When my (then boyfriend) now husband's X took him back to court. The judge wanted to see my income (we were living together). Our attorney told us that he just wants to make sure the the children are being financially taken care of by him. My income was not calculated in anyway for child...

Just because you are female and gave birth to the child, doesn't mean the father doesn't have any rights....You can't just up and leave, especially if he's paying CS...can't have both, sweetie!!!