Recent content by JAguirre

What is the name of your state? CA The case in question: the bio father has paid child support for 10+ years. He was recently re-married, changed jobs, and obtained full physical custody of one of his 3 children and is, therefore, having his new income/situation reviewed to recalculate child...

What is the name of your state? California My daughter is going to serve her ex boyfriend with custody order papers (temporary until a court date is set). Because there is no established custody order, the boyfriend will demand visitation literally at his beck and call. Several times he has...

I don't disagree with most of what you said. Should gender be factors that decide? No! The process that determines who is UNFIT, abusive or impared is one that is taken far too lightly -- at least where I live. That is by no means gender specific. Also, I think NEGLECT should be added to...

I have no statistical data to back this up, but … it’s something to think about. I wholeheartedly agree that gender does not a better parent make. However, this discussion appears to be focused on cases where the father actually desires to be an equal primary caregiver (no alternative motives...

Unfortunately, she has no idea where the mother lives as she just moved to a different county. However, I was recently notified that while the mother may be under the letter of the law by having possession of the child (for which the father granted), my daughter has every right to know the...

Thanks for the advice. Since she has already filed the custody/child support papers, can she have that requested appended? He has made it very difficult for her to attend anything since he “removed” her vehicle from her place of employment fairly recently. Read my post entitled “Need Advice –...

Please I really need some advice here. The saga continues. We contacted the police who told us there was nothing we could do. Because the car was in his name as well, he technically didn’t steal the car. Because the car was also in her name, neither her purse nor her friend’s wallet, could...

What is the name of your state? California My daughter has a 3-year old child with a boy/man she was with for several years. They purchased a car under both of their names which he recently took from the parking lot of her work. (I posted about this under a different forum). While she has...

What is the name of your state? California When my daughter (21) purchased her vehicle, she did not have adequate credit so her then boyfriend co-signed with her. For whatever reason, they did not put the car in his AND her name, but rather in his OR her name. My understanding is that both...