Recent content by ky mom

yes i agree with you on that one....it shocked me also....but when we were in front of the judge his words were....." i am a family man, i place alot on family values, and i think a child should have both parents to influence his/her life." well just how much of an influence can he make in...

yes i know that when a child learns to speak, they are definitely speaking their minds....but i also know that in the eyes of the courts(in ky) that a child must be a certain age before he/she is able to choose with whom they would like to live with (in the event the parents are divorced) i was...

yes it was court ordered....why, i do not know....no....i haven't tried to have the order modified due to waiting on my girls to be able to make up their own minds about going to see him...not only that but i have always been afraid of his parents and afraid to fight with them over the whole...

What is the name of your state? ky on a different note than all my previous posts in other forums....i have two daughters, ages 13 and 10, their father is in prison for trying to kill me almost 12 years ago....in our divorce papers i am court ordered to make my girls visit him in...

sorry that i forgot to mention that....i didn't think that it would have any bearings on what i am trying to do....but yes, in the court room while i was under oath i was asked if i still wanted to be a part of my son's life....and the adoptive parents also made the statement under oath that...

i am sorry to keep bothering you....but at this point in time you are the only one that has given me any advice that makes sense....i was told to file some type of petition asking that custody of my son come back to me or to my parents in the event of his adoptive mothers death....have any idea...

well i am a parent of a seven year old boy that allow his grandparents to adopt....i honestly wish that they would have asked for me to pay child support....at least i would not be in the situation that i am in now...i had my son up until he was almost three....and i decided to let them adopt...

ok we have established that i have no rights to my son...and we have established that he cannot be "willed" to anyone because he is a child and not someones property...what can i do now to prevent his aunt and uncle from getting him once his adoptive mother passes?

yes the adoption was through the courts here in ky....as far as i know my parental rights were terminated....i chose to do this because i thought that it would be the best thing for my son...don't misunderstand....i am not trying to take my son from his adoptive mother(as long as she is alive)...

What is the name of your state?kentucky.........do birthmothers have any rights to their children that they let grandparents adopt? here is my story...i have a seven year old son....and when he was almost three i allowed his bio-fathers parents adopt him for financial reasons....the agreement...

re:adoption reversal and grandparents rights i wish that i had the answer to that one myself....i am in the same boat here...if you come up with any answers please post so that i will know too.

thank you for your replies....yes i know that i gave my rights up when i allowed his father's parents to adopt him....but that does not change the fact that i am his birthmother and he does know me as such....i still talk to him on the phone and i do get to see him....had i not had him for...

What is the name of your state? i am a mom from ky and i have run into some serious problems that i am not sure what my rights are the the rights of my parents...i have a seven year old son...his bio-father wanted nothing to do with him...went to such extremes as to have someone else take the...