Recent content by Lils

Thanks gang, for your replies. I understand that it can be the opinion of many that it is none of my business what is going on with my BF and his ex. I have never interfered with any communication, have never spoken to (nor do I wish), with his ex. I'm sure many of you think that my...

What is the name of your state? GA Hey gang.... Well, in anticipation of the next challenge with my BF's ex, I'm going to try and get some answers about how this is going to go down... For some of my BF's visitation, including this visit from the 26th - 2nd, it was court ordered that he and...

"However I need for him to understand his role in the kids life" Here's the reality: the best role in his kids' life is being able to be in contact with them, exercise his visitation, and communicate with them regularly. Don't mix CS with visitation. Also, he's the one who should understand...

Every case is unique in its own way......it seems that in the case of my boyfriend and his children that his ex is just doing it to make him spend money that he doesn't have. When she left, she cleaned out the house, took all of the clothes with her. Now she is in NJ and has them basically the...

I have to put my two cents in here, because my boyfriend is a NCP and his CP ex is playing this game. Please, think of your children. Send clothes!!!!!!! This is not about getting back at your ex, etc., etc. I understand you are angry and bitter because the clothes do not get returned, but...

What is the name of your state? Georgia Hi gang.... Quick question......I know you all are not lawyers, but can anyone from experience help me understand under what circumstances a judge awards attorney fees? My boyfriend (in GA), just lost a moveaway custody case involving his two children...

Hi gang.... I posted before. Brief review: my boyfriend lost custody of his children on November 30 (court order is stamped and signed by judge on this date, he is GA)....his ex moved with his children (ages 5 and 14 months) to New Jersey the next day. He was given liberal visitation, including...

What is the name of your state? Hi gang... I just posted a few days ago regarding my boyfriend's trial decision and the recourse he can take.....he was very afraid that his ex would deny him phone contact with his 5 and 1 year old, and that is exactly what she is doing.... Here's the scoop...

Thanks for the tip on the airports.....we are looking for any way to minimize costs! We have started the certified letter......I am attaching this form below, what do you think of it? I found it at deltabravo.net, I just am not sure what to think about the wording at the bottom saying that if...

I do not take a personal attack on my boyfriend, or his religious views, as good advice. Again, I am trying to decide exactly what is fair to my boyfriend and what is a legal issue....thus, my original post and continued discussion on this board. Also, the welfare of his children ARE at stake...

I don't think there is anything in any of my posts that would be considered a pity party. We are in shock that his ex left the state with his two children without even letting him say goodbye, without discussing with him her intentions to take the 5 year old out of school 3 weeks before the end...

To answer Stealth's questions, the ex has moved to Toms River and is moving in with mommy and daddy. She has no plans on getting a job (she is a PH.D and in the same area of science as my boyfriend) and has been telling friends already in NJ that she can't wait to go husband hunting.....she has...

She says she is an Atheist. She announced it in a court of law, as well as announced it to my boyfriend, her family and all of her friends when she decided she was 2 years ago. Not that it really matters, but I am a Christian, however well-versed in Judaism. Oh, and by the way, not that it...

I am capitalizing "Atheist", because the whole subject of religion was such a hot topic in court, she suddenly appeared with a cross around her neck, made promises about raising them Jewish when she doesn't know the second thing about it, and it seems a bit "fishy" that the judge would give her...

To clarify further, my boyfriend observed all of the Jewish holidays and was actively teaching his 5 year old about Judaism. For Succoth, they celebrated it with the Rabbi of his synagogue, and all of this was presented in court. His lawyer was a wimp, while his ex's were vulchers, so they did...