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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ When making an educational and/or medical decisions (not an emergency), who has final say? Would it be the parent of primary residence? This is a joint custody situation, with me being primary parent. Does the school need both parents’...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ Hi everyone, it has been a while since I have been here but once again - another question. Was back in court one month ago today. Judge stated we would get his orders in two days. As of yet have not heard a word from him. Last week, his clerk...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ Hi everyone, I am back looking for some advice. Ex filed against me again. Here are some of the issues and I want some feedback from you guys. One he is asking for ROFR, which is strange since I work the same schedule as my children's school but...

What is the name of your state?nj When a child is getting braces and the expenses are to be split (as per court order after a $250.00 out of pocket medical expenses are paid by me, cp) does the cp pay the doctor first and then wait for ncp to pay them back. Or, can each parent pay the doctor...

What is the name of your state? NJ Hi everyone, it has been a while but I need your input again. Quick background I have been divorced for 8 years. Have 2 children, I am primary parent. Ex has serious, documented mental health issues. He has remarried. New issues ex started allowing his wife to...

What is the name of your state? NJ Ok - haven't been for a while but I have two questions and you all have been very helpful in the past so here goes: 1. Just found out about 20 minutes ago from my daughter's teacher that she (teacher) got a letter from stepmother. Tomorrow is parent - teacher...

What is the name of your state? NJ I have a somewhat interesting educational privacy question, that for the life of me I can't find the answer. If anyone can help with what law if any covers this situation I would greatly appreciate it (FERPA maybe??). Here is the situation. Child, 11, special...

What is the name of your state? NJ Hi everyone, I'm back for more info/advice. Crazy ex is at it again. I have some new questions. As primary parent with joint custody am I responsible for sending every little piece of school info to ex.? Now mind you I do, but now he is accusing me of not...

What is the name of your state? NJ Okay I have not been here for a long time but I need some help on some new issues. My ex and I have two children, 11 and 7. We get 7 vacation days a year. Now in the court order it does not indicate that they need to be taken consecutively. Now my ex started...

What is the name of your state? New Jersey I have two quick questions! I have joint custody of two children (son, 11 and daughter 7) with me being parent of primary residence. First question when making educational decisions and parents do not agree who has final say? This is not addressed in my...

What is the name of your state? NJ It is me again, I believe my ex is going to appeal the decissions made in family court a couple of weeks ago. Can anyone please let me know how this process works, what chances are there for decisions to be overturned? My ex refuses to deal with the fact he...

What is the name of your state? NJ Just wanted to let everyone know how much I appreciated your help and support in the past. I went to court today (after 4 postponments), ex was asking for Primary custody, and other stuff. He lost and I was awarded legal fees due to it being filed in bad faith...

What is the name of your state?New Jersey Okay, I asked alot of questions about this before and I just need some clarification. I am going back to court - ex filed motions to change visitation to 50/50 after 6 years of visitation being the same. I have never denied him his time or extra when he...

What is the name of your state? NJ My ex just served me again. Second time in two years. Okay this is the situation, my ex has a severe mental health isssue, that is documented. Now he is requesting the children on a 50/50 split. Our visitation schedule has been the same for 6 years. Does...

What is the name of your state? New Jersey It is me again. I have a question that I just really need clarification about. I am primary custodial parent with my ex having joint. He has now written me a letter stating he wants to change the visitation schedules so that he gets the children more...