Recent content by Ramsdale

Just Blue, thanks for the advice. I came here because I've been so torn about this. I came here with hopes of gaining an understanding of the justice system and how it works in regards to my question. Reading the comments this morning made me feel 100% misunderstood and picked on by certain...

Mostly, yes. Learned that I am an intrusive bad guy in the process. I've paid off the $31,000 debt a year ago last week. It's been bugging me.. I've always thought that it was illegal to knowingly withhold information from the government.

Our child is 7, and pretty awesome :)

I understand and agree. Prior to our child's birth, during that time, a paternity test wasn't mandatory.. establishing legal relations with our child was. I never suspected her to cheat or sleep around, she respected herself in that way. This was 7 years ago, so much has happened, so much has...

My ex wasn't some woman I had convenient sexual relations with. We lived together for a couple of years, she had two young boys prior to our own child whom I built relationship with and loved after their father abandoned them. As I stated in a previous comment reply, our communication prior to...

My ex did not communicate with me since the phone call on the day of our child's birth. Communication prior to that day was actually efficient and positive. For the record, we were together for three years, lived together for two of the three years. We separated two months into the pregnancy...

What is the name of your state? What is the name of your state? Oregon Situation: My ex and I were no longer in a relationship at the time of our child's birth. We lived in the same town; we both agreed it was best that I am present for the delivery. She lived with her grandmother and two...