Recent content by Rochelle

Well, never mind. The ex filed for a continuance.

Someone? Anyone?

What is the name of your state?MS Ok, those of you who remember me will remember this has been an ongoing situation with my husband's ex. We went to Court in 10/04, but while she agreed to everything on that day through her attorney, when it came to sign the Agreed Order of Modification, she...

I'm sorry. I'm quoting MS law, so my answer is of absolutely no help to the OP.

Were you arrested? If you were not arrested, then your parole can not be violated.

Thanks. I'll pass that along to my husband.

My next question was going to be if my husband could ask the court to order the child be taken to see a therapist. She needs someone to talk to that she can trust but her mother refused to allow her dad to take her when they lived closer and now that they're so far away her mother would have to...

Let me ask this question. We had a recorder hooked up to the phone for the last week. Last night, we couldn't find it and my stepdaughter said she had it in her room. My husband got it and this morning he was going to hook it up, and he listened to the tape and his daughter had recorded...

He refused to settle and she ain't a happy camper. Anyway, she sent my husband and his mother (I have no idea why she sent my mother in law a letter) a certified letter saying that my husband was "brainwashing" their child and that it made her sick the way he treats the child. I think she's...

Thanks. He's going for custody, and the hearing is set for October 13th. In the meantime, all we can do is be there for her and try not to let her see how upset it makes us to know she is being traumatized. She calmed down considerably when my husband told her that he believed her and it...

Last night his daughter called, crying so hard she could barely talk. She said she "was a liar" and when my husband asked about what she said "everything". He asked her if her mom and stepfather were making her tell him that and she said "yes" and he asked if she had been lying to him about...

I feel the same way, and I think he'd be crazy to trust her. I mean, she's already in contempt of court, so why believe she's going to behave now?

Well, I need to ask another question. My husband's ex called him last night and now wants to "work things out". She said she can't afford for this to go to court and said if he'd "talk sensibly" they should be able to work things out for the best interest of the child. He asked her why all of...

No, but that's a good idea. We talked last night about a code word she could use when she does get to talk to him. For example, if her stepfather has punished her again by spanking her with a shoe or something, she could say "teddybear Daddy". And if it's another kind of touching that is...

She said they won't let her use the phone. She said whenever she has said she wanted to call Daddy, that they'd give her some chore or something to do first, and then when she'd get done they'd say it was "too late" to call him and she could try tomorrow. The counselor said that he would...