Recent content by SAHMinCA

Oh you win. You've beat another ex-wife/mother into submission. What a wonderful way to start out your day! I'd like to meet the woman who made you such a bitter, angry person. She does good work. Oh and when I have sex, we always do it right in the family room while the kids are eating...

Wow. I'm absolutely speechless. I came here for advice, which was given and appreciated. But now I realize you're absolutely right! All these years, while he filed bankruptcy, jumped from job to job, slept in until noon and served my kids spaghetti-os for breakfast, shacked up with girls...

I'll try to recreate my post again since the other one was lost while you were "waiting"...sorry for holding you up. My ex has always made poor choices when it comes to his kids and their best interests. I won't even go into the drug use and partying and moving in with strangers. That's not...

Thank you for your responses. That's not at all what I wanted to hear (of course) but gives me some idea of what I'm up against. In light of the Danielle Van Dam case, I'm very concerned about keeping my kids safe. It's a shame their father doesn't have the same belief. Maybe we should just...

I've kept copies of all the emails and the IM. Our children are 13 and 8. And no, our current agreement doesn't restrict access to unknown persons. I haven't retained an attorney yet, but will be looking into this next week.

What is the name of your state? California Here's the short version: have two children with ex-husband, who currently lives with new (19 year old) girlfriend. Have learned they're into swinging. Though I don't approve, what they do together is none of my business. My son Tom was going to...