Recent content by splcstr2001

This infuriates me!!!!!!!! No one helped finance my PSE. It would have been great to graduate "student loan free", but that just isn't the case for a lot of students these days. If he is disrespectful now and feels that you "owe him" an education, I agree with you, I'd appeal that ruling too. I...

Future advice If you loose a job, you should notify her and the courts IMMEDIATELY!!!! (Certified Mail). Next time you agree that there are "no problems"......... GET IT IN WRITING! WITH HER SIGNATURE ON IT(PREFERABLY NOTARIZED)! I know of 2 states that the NCP is not obligated to pay when...

I believe that there is a formula that can be relied upon in the state. If you do not currntly have an order, the current C/P should be receiving 25%. However, what I looked at looks as If it will reduce to 20% for her and 10% for you. The laws say "children obligor has a legal duty to support"...

To my knowledge................NO. The "extra's" are to come out of C/S. The only thing that I know that she can do is have the C/S reconfigured. In my state, C/S is reviewed every 3 years, but at the request of the CP. As I stated before, If it is not in the paperwork, he does not have to do...

1. Mother has aquired much better job than had at time of order and her insurance is better plus we live 2 hours away and my husband works in Ky. All the docs on provider list are in our area. So... is it possible, so she could use her own docs and not have to drive 2 hours to get one, could we...

C/S coverage Child support whatever she wants it to cover. C/S is to cover the basic needs of the child (food,clothing & shelter). States state this differently. I'd say that $225.00 per kid per week is very decent. It's not as if they need new clothes every week. Your hausband DOES NOT HAVE TO...

Treat her like any other NCP If she is in arrearages (which is what it sounds like), you should file a contempt order. Trust me, if the shoe were on the other foot, she would do it to you. Texas can order a wage garnishment. This allows the C/S to be automatically deducted from her paycheck. I...

You should read your paperwork, most paperwork states that support ends for that child when they reach 18 years of age or graduate High school. I have heard that some states factor in a higher education, but I believe that it is rare. Try your state statutes, they should be online. If he is not...

Hey! I am convinced your bases are covered! Most losers talk a good game but do not deliver. Live your life, but be aware of his. Continue to collect your evidence and try to be free. Best Wishes!

Maybe a member of the military might see this and offer a bit of advice, that has just been my experience with it all. Sorry!

Okay! Not on the B/C/ i think you have no worries. If he takes her, it's kidnapping. He would either have to acknowledge paternity and sign papers , or submit to a DNA test. Once that is done, a visitation and C/S order would establish his rights. (visitation schedule and child support). It...

Wow! What a tangled web we weave!!!!!!!!!!! There is nothing like dealing with JAG lawyers, huh? My ex was an Army Sarge, and he could not be crucified until he returned home, on anything. You will have to wait until he is discharged from that location and returns home. Situations dealing with...

Hope I can help! If he is on the B/C and has acknowledged paternity, absent a court order, they both have equal rights. I don’t know what kind of person he is, but, lets just say that he has the child one weekend and decides that he no longer likes the agreement, or, he and the mother get into...

Arrears Is he currently paying his support obligation? Why is he behind? (unemployment, injury, etc.)? My husband was behind in C/S for 3 years. Because he was paying his C/S and a portion to arrears the issue wasn't pressed. Only If he was NOT paying could she have sought remedy for...

Absolutely!! What do your papers say????????? If this is an ongoing problem, I suggest you take a witness with you and document dates and times that you have tried to pick up your son. You will have more proof of her blatant contempt. This was suggested by our attorney. It worked! Now keep in...