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What is the name of your state? NC How do you determine that it is in fact Parental Alienation Syndrome? I have been reading a lot about it, a lot of what I read sounds so familiar to what we are going through, but I'm not sure. How do you get anything done before more damage is caused to these...

What is the name of your state? NC I posted before a couple of weeks ago about my husband's employer only taking out 40% for child support. You guys told me that he is responsible for the difference. We understand that part, but we dont have the difference to send. Okay, now his ex is going to...

What is the name of your state? NC What can you do when the CP is not letting you talk to your kids? This woman has alienated these kids from their dad and continues to do it and to get away with it. What rights does my husband have when it comes to his own children? Any? They live in CT we live...

What is the name of your state? NC My husband has been living in NC for almost 5 years. His ex wife and children live in CT. The child support order is from MA where they both lived at the time of the divorce. My husband is court ordered to pay $177/week. His employer told him that they will not...

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I also live in NC (Forsyth County) and I will tell you this..I made the mistake of letting my ex have our kids the first weekend after we split and he would not let me have our daughter back. Our son came back to me. Our daughter was 10 then (15 now) and when we went to court, the judge said...

Okay, I just found the first order from CT (dated September 8, 2003) and it says: [Agreement of the parties post judgment.] Issue of visitation and access to minor children is referred to Family Relations for mediation. All pending motions are marked off pending FRO report. Then it goes on and...

Thanks. The order (in MA) says specifically that he is to get 4 consecutive weeks in the summer in NC, and 3 weekends a year in CT. I found the last order (from CT) dated May 17, 2004. The first thing it says about visitation is that father will communicate directly with mother to arrange...

Oh yeah and we do have documentation of everything, 5 years worth. For all the good it has ever done him anyway, we still continue to document. I really appreciate the advice..

Well we have both had bad experiences with lawyers and cannot afford another one at this time. He is just going to have to take her to court again. The thing is, she says there is no visitation order. If there isnt, then he cant get her for contempt. Thats why I am trying so desparately to find...

The original court order for CS and visitation is in MA. His ex was supposed to get the CS moved to CT (by court order in 2002) and she has not done this yet so the CS is STILL in MA. They have been to court so many times (her taking him for contempt b/c he was behind in CS). In the very...

What is the name of your state? NC, MA, CT I will try to make this brief. There was a court order in MA for child visitation for my husband. Both him and his ex lived there. She moved away first (to CT) then he later moved to NC. Last year, my husband had to go to court in CT (b/c that is where...