Recent content by stepmom65

Very Well Said!!!!!!!

ecastanedo: I'm on your side. I too am a step parent, and know and understand your story too well....I get the same treatment when I ask questions, just let the water run off your back. There are people in here with honest and valuable information. Hopefully, you will get your answers to...

What is the name of your state? California I'm asking fo my sister-in-law, she doesn't have access to a computer. My sister-in-law and my brother have been divorces 7 years, 2 kids. They are both messed up emotionally, and I don't condomn any of their issues. Here I go. My brother has been...

We had the same experience....Mom went on welfare, did not mention the CS she was receiving, from 2 men...we got many letters from the county to garnish my husband's wages stating that he had to prove paternity, and that he wasn't paying his CS.etc., etc.....and to pay back what she was using...

Hey LdiJ I found some of the OP's other posts (she has 3 with the same topic) and sounds like she's had issues with the dad not giving permission....Since she knows this in advance, it's to her best interest to plan way ahead, in case she has to do to court. Why send us 3 postings on the same...

Is it just me or is every word capitalized except for: god?????

This is true....Don't parents usually get some vacation time with their kids (whatever is agreed in court)? If that's the case here, as I stated before, if she can't communicate with her X, she can send a certified, delivery confirmation letter to her X, and also to her Attorney, for greater...

Geezzz...you're tough!! Espnwidow: You go and put the screws to your X and her friend....good luck.

Her wanting to take the child WITHOUT permission is very suspicious to me..I damn sure would want to know what was happening if it was my kid.. Permission or no permission, it's courtesy and the best interest of the child for all parties to be notified. Have you ever had a child taken to...

I agree also...the arrears will continue to build...You can't just stop paying. If that was the case, no one would collect their CS...

wasn't there a case just like this in the news recently? I forgot which state...

This is correct, they always asked my X and myself... If you don't get along with your X and that is way you are considering not letting him know, then send him a certified, proof of delivery letter. If you don't, and your X complains, you could look bad in court...

From California also....My experience is: When my son's father wanted to take him to Mexico to visit family and to Canada to ski and vacation, he had to write me a letter, stating dates leaving/returning, exact location (hotels, homes), and the phone number where I can reach my son. This was...

Do the certified mail with delivery proof option, if you don't like the garnishment process.... find a new bank that has online banking and that you can print out the needed information...You are going to have to do something beside whining to us..... If you went the garnishment way, you...