Recent content by virginia_mom

Thanks! Thanks for the post. We are dealing with different social situations for sure. Since my last post, I've called the company who did the sibling test for me. They reviewed the results and said they could not believe that my ex had done a valid paternity test because according to their...

Regarding the support issue, since that seems to be coming up a bit I think I'd like to clarify. What he and I have done is to pay in proportion to income into an account that funds all child related expenses. For most of her life, I have paid over 50% of the money into that account and most of...

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and reply to the questions. I'm still confused as to why he would want to insist on a court ordered test. It would seem that the only advantage there is the ability to submit it in court but why that would be an issue escapes me when he says that he...

Thank you for your thoughts. I'm sorry you didn't have anything to address my questions but if the scolding made you feel better then I'm glad for that. Blessings, vm

He always has something up his sleeve! I guess that's why I can't let it rest right now - I hate being caught with my guard down. Thanks for reading that long story. I just can't figure out where this is all coming from.... vm

I know I got myself into this mess but I'm looking for some thoughts on where it is going. Five years ago, my (then) husband and I separated. While separated, I had an affair and a child was conceived. I honestly wasn't (am not) sure if the father was my husband or this other man but my husband...