Recent content by worriedwith1

Excuse me Met, but he has already graduated from college. You dont know what your talking about. I hate coming here for advice and being degraded by people who have no idea about whats going on. this website is for helpful advice so go find some chat room if you want to put people down. The...

I understand and agree and I have told him to keep asking about his money until they get sick of seeing his face and hearing his voice. As far as him getting out, I told him that If he does choose to try and get out, it would be a fight. I guess for him, most of the people he is stationed...

Thanks for your reply but he checked into the money they are taking out for all that and its still not adding up. As far as him doing his TIME...Your not the first to look at it like that and thats what gets me. They are helping to make a difference, not in Jail. These men join the service by...

Can someone please help and give me some kind of advice or somewhere I can look on-line for information about trying to get discharged?

What is the name of your state?de A friend of mine joined the Navy in May. Since then, things that he has been told have changed. For one, He was given a $6,000 sign on bonus for joining that he has yet to recieve and when he asks about it, they brush him off telling him, "It takes time". He...

About time someone has brought that to BB's attention. He's rude with his name calling and Actually, the courts have proven paternity for this guy, read closer...Mom took him to court for child support and an order was granted and so was paternity!

Do whats best for this child. If you want a relationship with him and can accept that he has a person in his life who has fathered him then try to build something with this child. Maybe you should seek some therapy(not being rude at all). It might be good for you and this child if you do try...

You do have right, yes, but either man up and try to start a relationship with this child or let him continue his life. dont step in and then walk out again when things get tough and if you do have time to build a relationship with this child, dont bad mouth his father because you feel you...

Ok, so if she did consider adoption then, like you say you thought...Then you child would have been raised by both a MOM and DAD who adopted them. Then he would be carrying his adoptive family's last name. They would be his parents. Not you just because you gave your DNA to make a baby. A...

Well I think she's right. And I think it would be hard for you to explain that to your son but its the truth. You gave your DNA to make this child but his mothers husband has gave his Love,time,and dedication to this child and thats why he calls him Dad. As your son gets older he will...

Another man's name that fathered another mans child when he walked out!

Your son is going to ask you the same questions he has or might ask his mother, in the future. You asked why we are all so hostile about this situation and thats because as mothers, we deal with these questions when Dads walk out of our childrens lifes and later want to return and decide to be...

Why is it such a big deal to you that his mother might change his name to her married name, the name of the FATHER who has been fathering him since he was 1? Is it a game,control,spite? I dont get it. You didn't want the responsibility when he was born, you left, now you SAY you want to get...

WEll being a parent, is ansering questions. You said your child knows about you but is calling his mothers husband Dad, so how many questions do you think SHE had to answer that you son has been curious about already? Maybe you should think about this long and hard before you walk into this...