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Ldji because in the long run, it's unsustainable. I become the daycare provider and she becomes the parent with fun time. I want to have a fun time and relax with my kids as well. Not to mention I will be solely responsible for their schooling for homework, for food, and everything in the...
Now i might be a bit biased but I think its a combination of both, It seems to be that she's trying to prove to friends and family that I am not a good husband and she's trying to get a stamp of approval from the Judge or a GAL with a decision that favors her. This way it becomes easier to go to...
Stealth I agree, children should be the most important thing in your life, and that's why i want my kids half the time or perhaps close to that (non-negotiable) The kids need to know that they are loved and adored by both their parents and they should be able to spend quality time with both...
It's all about Doability. I can do 2/2/3 or 7/7 i just can't spend 7 days a week every day and keep the kids till 8 pm. That was her last proposal next week it will change. One consistency is that she wants to keep the kids overnight
Sorry, guys silly questions and unrelated but in my case financial discovery is done divorce not finalized if my stocks rose after discovery has been filed and acknowldeged will I also have to share this with my STBX. Or does the discovery puts a cap on your finances?
When my daughter says something I can tell whether it's coached or not because of her age and the words she uses.
I am sure Judges who have spent years on the bench have seen everything and more.
I wouldn't say anything negative now or ever about their mom. I understand the impact of words on...
@LDJI so you are saying that although 50/50 like a week off week on is not a norm but they will still try to do a 50/50?
2 nights a week would be 104 and perhaps 52 weekends and including holidays might come to close to 50/50?
Is that what you are stating?
The kids stay home with me and do their e-learning. I take care of their homework and everything you can from 8-4or5 pm.
Laundry, dishes, cleaning is all done by me. It's very rare that she would work on these tasks.
She does help me with giving kids a bath and putting them to sleep and that's...
I am asking for 50% she's asking for 80-90% like i think she wants me to see the kids every other Wednesday.
She just told me 2 days ago that she's ok with the kids spending the entire day with me as long as they can sleep with her in the night which once again makes no sense whatsoever. Its...
We are in the midst of resolving our child custody issue which, to be honest with you is not going well either.
STBX demands on the child custody issue are not realistic at all.
I am not sure if I would leave the money to any siblings or stbx i would create trust and leave it for the kids.
One...
Hello @LdiJ my apologies, below is the break down for a clear picture.
Her total marital assets 550k
My total marital assets 650k
Total Marital assets 1.2million
My premarital assets along with my inheritance 500k-550k (Ball Park)
She has no premarital assets.
Even if you split the Marital...
@not2cleverRed I do not have a college fund set up, would it help if i set it up?
Marital funds are 1.2 Million
Premarital with Inheritance are 500 or so.
Her salary last year was 190 or so
Mine was 75 or so
Why is she asking for premarital money or half of the inheritance from my parents? I...
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