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So Technically speaking what you are saying is although i have 165 days i will also have another 5-6 days in holidays?
In the previous agreement this is what the GAL suggested i doubt this will change
Holidays: Parent agree that holidays schedule shall take precedence over the regular parenting...
Stealth you read my mind exactly. I know exactly how things will play out here. Give some space to STBX listen to everything be polite and humble and ask down the road if i can keep them an extra day. if i can establish another day yes one year pass by and then i can make it official.
The GAL is suggesting the following
Week1 Tuesday Wednesday
Week2 Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday
Summer split.
Major holidays will be split (At atleast last time i spoke with him)
This is it as of right now
Mistakes of Epic proportion happen. This is why when you have children you don't try to do something out of guilt.
Never ever leave your child. They grow up and one day they will see you and they will only have contempt for you Or they grow up and the cycle continues.
I got the report from GAL I get 45% around 165 days or so
My lawyer is advising me to take it, she's telling me not to make it personal, and it's difficult to not make it personal since I am the primary care taker for the kids.
On the same hand, I have 2 kids and more stress on me and STBX...
Yes but its still tough, its a violation of trust. Not sure what motivates people to cheat especially when kids are involved.
Good you are out, you need to break that cycle, you don't want your children to follow in the same footsteps of their dad.
Well, that relationship is unfortunately ruined. You are now pregnant so he has an obligation towards your kids as well. Take care of yourself for now and don't stress out what's done is done. Not a damn thing you can change, cool your head think about your twins, and think about how you can...
no just transferred it from one account to another. The only way to transfer was through a martial account (The marital account was not a joint account it was a personal account)
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Guys i have a question. I am filling out financial intergotorries?
I have a couple of marital bank account and nonmarital.
I have one question regarding non marital account
In 2019 i transferred 10k from one of my nonmarital accounts into a marital account.
The same week i transferred the 10k...
i guess my question is that moving forward should i just agree to what my spouse says? Even if i have question or even if its unreasonable? I just dont want her to CC Gal on every little thing. I just dont want the GAL to feel like we cannot get along when clearly we can
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Jeez my apologies i think i deleted my own post.
Here it is
Guys sorry for the bombardment of questions.
We are working with a GAL and her decision will come out soon probably end of march
2 weeks ago mom sends me a text asking me if i am ok to send the kid back to school from E-School I didn't...
I have that but i am wondering the criteria? Is it last year's gross income or just the last 3 paystubs? that will determine the criteria?
The problem is that my stbx has started working less hours during the last 2 months or so. I was just curious
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What is the name of your state? IL
I am just curious as to how Child Support is calculated? Is it based on the pervious 3 months paystub or previous years gross income?
Is their any other criteria?
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Stealth heavy lifting is not the issue here. The issue is that i would be dealing with my EX on a regular basis. An EX who is controlling and wants me to do things her way because her way is the right way.
Imagine how your stress level would be if you have to deal with your ex twice daily...
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