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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
Hello,
Thanks in advance.
I have primary custody of my 10 year old son. His dad and I have lived 10 minutes apart for 8 years. I am remarried now and my husband has found employment that requires us to move our family. It's 1 hr 20 minutes away...
What is the name of your state? CA
Hello,
My son's father and I are divorced. I have had primary custody and he pays child support.
He has wanted the custodial time to be 50/50 and to eliminate the support payment.
We both have equal earnings as far as I know. I may outearn him a bit.
My new...
What is the name of your state? CA
Hello,
My fiance has a large defaulted student loan. Needless to say, it has ruined credit.
My credit is good and I am a homeowner.
I believe (and may be wrong) that I am not responsible for his student loan debt when we marry. I believe it is different than...
What is the name of your state? CA
My ex and I share custody of our son. Right now it's about a 60/40 time split (our son is with me more) and he is wanting a 50/50 arrangement eventually (which I am open to so long as the ex is keeping his act clean).
I am also on the verge of being engaged...
Child support amount
He actually earns less than I do although his earning power is higher.
He has a degree, as I do, and works in sales. I am only an advisor at a college and my salary is set with only a 3% increase from year to year. He can double what I make.
He claims he only made $17,000...
Help!
I let my ex know that I prefer to what is in the judgement, that I did not want to go along with his "deal" and I gave him the reasons why.
He is frustrated. In order to get his annuity portion, he has to provide a Qualified Domestics Relations Order to the annuity company. This is going...
Good suggestion
Or perhaps have him reduce his CS payment by $100 for 2 years...so that there is still support coming in for our son and the annuity stays intact.
What is the worst case scenario for not getting this court-ordered? If we agree to everything and have it notarized, why should...
Look good?
Not so sure I look good...
A mom whose willing to use her child's support to invest in her retirement?
Doesn't sound good...
But as I said, I would not even have pondered his offer if our little boy were wanting for anything...
But he is well-fed in a warm home wearing good...
Good point
Yes, my child has a right to his support and I cannot use his support as leverage in property division negotiations....that was why I said, "I realize that the CS payment is meant to support my son, not offset the property division"
Now I feel so dirty : (
What is the name of your state? CA
My ex is entitled to 50% (as of our date of separation) less $2000 of my annuity...this winds up being about $3000. He can keep it in an interest-bearing account or withdraw it at a 25% tax rate (and get about $2,250 in cash).
He has offered to give up the...
One drawbacks to these boards is that you never can give the entire background of your scenario.
I had billing disputes with this office before. That is part of the reason I decided not to continue with her. In all honesty, I believe that their billing practices are unethical and I am not the...
What is the name of your state?CA
Hi all,
I submitted a letter to my attorney in September '04 telling her that as of that date, her services would no longer be required. I asked that she send me a comprehensive final bill of all services performed up to that date.
I got the final bill and...
Did I hijack?
Do you mean me? I thought this was a new post.
Well, anyhow...
My ex agrees to help with the premiums above and beyond child support. Yes, lawyers drafted our judgement and yes, a judge approved it.
My ex and I are going to create an addendum that specifies that I will keep our...
What is the name of your state? CA
Hello,
As part of our recent settlement, my ex is to start paying child support very soon. Upon reviewing our judgement, no where does it specify who will keep our child on the medical/dental insurance and how the premium costs get split. But, the judgement...
Trying to settle out of court...
We are trying to settle out of court...we have lawyers to help with the calculations and such.
I am comfortable with the amount of the payment he has offered and he has also offered to help pay some daycare costs but now it seems he wants to reduce the CS based...
More info..
Well, we are still married, in the midst of the divorce process. We've been seperated since October 2003.
I realize that he could be asked to pay back support but during the time we were seperated, the man was not working consistently and fighting a drug problem to boot.
He is clean...
What is the name of your state? CA
My ex is scheduled to start making child support payments. He does not feel that it is equitable that he will make child support payments based on the fact that I have our son most of the time since, as he puts it, "the kid is in daycare 40 hours a week."
I...
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