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Sorry I haven’t checked my post in a bit. Honestly guys..... I don't really care about if the mom gets any money here. It is really the least of my concerns. Newguy, I haven't decided what will happen if the children get married yet. Any suggestions?
No we talked a long time about this trust fund thing and we decided that this is fine. They get 50,00 at 18 because even though I will pay for their college tuition up to the age of 22, to allow them to learn money management, all other things (apartment, car, entertainment) they will have to...
I have gotten back from talking to my meeting about visitation and I thought that I would give you an update.
My ex, the children, our lawyers and I sat down and discussed the issues at hand. I explained to her my reasons for why I felt that the children should live with me. We came to an...
I don't think you really understand how I am looking at the money part of it. It is in no way important to me. All that matters is that the children are happy. I have all that I need in this world. I have been fortunate enough to have had a great paying job that has allowed me to put a large...
I just thought that I would let you know that I just got off the phone with my ex. I talked to her about how I felt and all of us (the children, lawyers, mom, dad, and I) are going to sit down on Wednesday to talk over some type of plan. I will keep you posted later in the week to tell you how...
I think that I should have been more specific with the money that is given her for Child Support. We have a system worked out where she has access to 4000 a month but can't just go spend it on what she wishes. I'm not stupid enough to allow her to just have 4000 in cash a month. I have issued...
Now Now, Nobody has yelled on this post yet. They were living in a trailer the last time they were married. Five people are not meant for a trailer. It is way too small.
1. How old are the children?
Jessica is 8, Patrick is almost 10 and James is almost 12
2. Do you know how they will feel about living with you instead of their Mom?
Like I said, they want to live with me but I am frightened that they might not be thinking very rationally when they come to...
My lawyer told me that I can be evaluated and then present my evaluation to the courts. I just got off of the phone with my ex and she said that she would fight it and that I was being silly. When we were married I worked long hard hours. She is saying that if I ever go back (I don’t think...
It might be important to know that I had pretty extensive brain damage. I have memory lapses and intense migraines that literally incapacitate me. I have a housekeeper though and would be willing to hire some extra help if it would look better in court. I worry how my condition will affect me...
Do you think that I would have a chance? I mean I am basically going to be going to court and asking a judge to give custody of the children for no reason. I can't say I was scammed because the judge would probably look at me like I am crazy. I talked to one of my lawyers the other day just...
The thing though is that I still perceive her as a good woman. I still love her dearly. When we were married we had sex at least once a day. After my accident I was no longer able to provide this for her. Sex isn't everything but it needs to exist in a marriage for it to work. I don't blame...
Oh no no no... The only reason why I called their dad is because I assumed that since mom and dad were back together he would want to have the rights signed back over. I have no problem with keeping them at all. I even told the mom that if dad did not want the custody signed over because he...
This might be very confusing and sound really stupid to a lot of people but here goes:
* My EX and I were married in April 2003.
* She has 3 children.
* Shortly before we got married the father of the children signed over rights of the children to me. I legally adopted them.
* When we got...
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