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Thanks all. I plan to talk to my therapist regarding this, but I'm glad to see I have a right to advocate for myself. I'm a very guilt driven person, so I thought there was no way I had a right to defend myself. But I see this is about the future as much as the past, and I'm going to prove that...
Thanks for the feedback everyone. I do honestly have mixed emotions because I cannot blame her for filing the order, and I do take responsibility, so I don't want to show up and act like what I did was not wrong, and I don't want to drag this out further since I obviously already screwed up by...
Yeah, I hate that it comes across as a manipulative move, and honestly it's something that I feel awful about because there's history of it in her family, but honestly I only sent the letter cuz I've had severe depression since I was a small child and I finally felt overwhelmed, had no hopes of...
Thank you. My family actually suggested I not go because I'm going to be very emotional and im don't do well with nerves in these situations, and they don't think o have much shot.
I definitely screwed up, and I have an obsessive personality, so I see why she might be distressed and not want...
Thank you. I was concerned about this. I asked the clerk's office and they stated that the stipulations in the emergency order would simply be placed in the plenary order. I suppose it best I go, but I don't have much of a defense.
Thank you. I'm in Illinois. The harrassment threshold is low here (two or more unwanted messages constitutes harrassment). I'm pretty sure she has copies of our messages. None of them are awful but they are sort of long and rambly. I know that I want this removed, but I think I also can't really...
So I was issued an emergency order of protection for harrassment by an ex girlfriend. The plenary hearing is in a few weeks. I'm wondering if I should even show up. I have little to no evidence, no witnesses (I told very few friends or family about her, none met her) I admit it was a diffcult...
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