17 yr old unhappy at home. help asap

[nobody17]

What is the name of your state? florida
i am really unhappy living with my mother. i put up with a lot of mental abuse and now she's wanting to tell me i cant date my b/f (21 yr.old) i want to move out sooo badly i really hate my life. i already ran away once before (when i was 16)and my mom found me and didnt do anything bout it. i would run away now bout i love my b/f with all my heart and wanna marry him eventually and he said if i ran away he would dump me and for me to never calll him again. so now i am trying to find an alternate route as to what to do. i cant live with my grandma she lives an hour away and dont wanna live there. my b/f's mom would let me move in and stay in the guest room but she doesnt wanna deal with my mother and what she would try to do. his mom thinks mine is childish and a bitch and wont even talk to her cause of the way she treats me. is there anyway that i can move in with my b/f and his parents?? and what would happen if i just left and stayed with them?? i really need help asap. i cant take much longer of living here.

 

[Wolflmg]

The court wont let you movie in with your boyfriends parents. That wont happened, and the only way you can prove yourself to be a indepented to move out of your mother home, is if you can prove to the court you can support yourself. Which includes paying rent for a apartment, car insurance, food, and medical care. Also they'll want you to stay in school as well, for your education.
The court will probably frown on you having a boyfriend that 21 soon to be 22. More then likely if you bring anything up about him, they wont grant you what you want.
If your mother is really mentaly abusing you. Then I would talk to a school conculor and see if it would be possible for you to be put into your grandmothers care until your 18. I know you don't want to live with your grandma, but that maybe the only option you have, if you don't want to wait around until your 18 and are able to go off on your own.

I would also suggest not having a sexual relationship with your boyfriend. The last thing you need is to get pregnant. And I know far too many teens who have gotten pregnant, and most of them weren't happy endings.

Just hang in there and keep your head held up high.

 

[jennifer6219]

why would your boyfriend dump you and never talk to you again if you leave your mothers house if your being mentally abused

 

[nobody17]

heh well i aint in school so i cant tell a consuler. i droped out over a yr. ago

 

[stealth2]

heh well i aint in school so i cant tell a consuler. i droped out over a yr. ago

Well..... that's pretty obvious. So you're working and can support yourself?

 

[Wolflmg]

heh well i aint in school so i cant tell a consuler. i droped out over a yr. ago

Dropped out of school, huh. That's one of the worst things you could ever do to your life. My advise get enrolled back into school or setup some online classes to get your GED. Because in order to support yourself, you need to get a job and there are a lot of places that wont hire because you never finished your high school education.
It's a tough world out there and that's why your education is very important. I really don't think you want to work at a fastfood place the rest of your life.

And I have a feeling if you go to court, one way or another they will find out that you dropped out of school and that probably wouldn't be a good thing with them.

http://www.dol.gov/asp/fibre/dropout.htm