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My stepson was diagnosed with ADHD, it that considered a disability? and if so does the grandmother receive monies for his ADHD?





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abstract99

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Ummm NO tthousands of children have add/adhd and make it through life just fine it is in no way debilitating on the childrens ability to lead a normal life besides that they have trouble concentrating and are a little hyper.
 
Thanks abstract 99 for your quick response :D

My husband thinks its a disability and I told him that I didn't think it was.




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Whyte Noise

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Actually, ADHD IS a listed disability with the SSA and a child CAN draw benefits if they meet the criteria set forth by the agency.

However, for that to happen this ADHD has to be at such a severe level that the child can't function on a daily basis, be far below his/her peers, etc. The SSA has a "Listing of Impairments" manual that they go by in determining whether a person qualifies or not. The listing for ADHD is Listing 112.11 and states:

"112.11 Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: Manifested by developmentally inappropriate degrees of inattention, impulsiveness, and hyperactivity.

The required level of severity for these disorders is met when the requirements in both A and B are satisfied.

A. Medically documented findings of all three of the following:

1. Marked inattention; and

2. Marked impulsiveness; and

3. Marked hyperactivity;

and

B. For older infants and toddlers (age 1 to attainment of age 3), resulting in at least one of the appropriate age-group criteria in paragraph B1 of 112.02; or, for children (age 3 to attainment of age 18), resulting in at least two of the appropriate age-group criteria in paragraph B2 of 112.02."


Edited to add the following, which is 112.02 Parts B1 and B2 which the ADHD listing references:

"B. Select the appropriate age group to evaluate the severity of the impairment:

1. For older infants and toddlers (age 1 to attainment of age 3), resulting in at least one of the following:

a. Gross or fine motor development at a level generally acquired by children no more than one-half the child's chronological age, documented by:

(1) An appropriate standardized test; or

(2) Other medical findings (see 112.00C); or

b. Cognitive/communicative function at a level generally acquired by children no more than one-half the child's chronological age, documented by:

(1) An appropriate standardized test; or

(2) Other medical findings of equivalent cognitive/communicative abnormality, such as the inability to use simple verbal or nonverbal behavior to communicate basic needs or concepts; or

c. Social function at a level generally acquired by children no more than one-half the child's chronological age, documented by:

(1) An appropriate standardized test; or

(2) Other medical findings of an equivalent abnormality of social functioning, exemplified by serious inability to achieve age-appropriate autonomy as manifested by excessive clinging or extreme separation anxiety; or

d. Attainment of development or function generally acquired by children no more than two-thirds of the child's chronological age in two or more areas covered by a., b., or c., as measured by an appropriate standardized test or other appropriate medical findings.



2. For children (age 3 to attainment of age 18), resulting in at least two of the following:

a. Marked impairment in age-appropriate cognitive/ communicative function, documented by medical findings (including consideration of historical and other information from parents or other individuals who have knowledge of the child, when such information is needed and available) and including, if necessary, the results of appropriate standardized psychological tests, or for children under age 6, by appropriate tests of language and communication; or

b. Marked impairment in age-appropriate social functioning, documented by history and medical findings (including consideration of information from parents or other individuals who have knowledge of the child, when such information is needed and available) and including, if necessary, the results of appropriate standardized tests; or

c. Marked impairment in age-appropriate personal functioning, documented by history and medical findings (including consideration of information from parents or other individuals who have knowledge of the child, when such information is needed and available) and including, if necessary, appropriate standardized tests; or

d. Marked difficulties in maintaining concentration, persistence, or pace."
 
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My stepson has been going to a special school for his anger problem.

I don't know that much information about the school because the bio-mom and her mother refuses to tell my husband where the school is and such.

My stepson sometimes has this outbursts when he would hit my son for no reason whats so ever. I sometimes think he does just to be spiteful, but then again it could be his ADHD?

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Whyte Noise

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My son was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 4. He'll be 12 in 2 months.

He's hit his younger sister, bit her, clobbered her with an iron pipe, choked her into almost unconsciousness, the list goes on and on. He was also defiant towards any adults: parents, teachers, grandparents, etc. In 2003 he was diagnosed with ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder) as well as the ADHD and put on additional medication for the ODD.

As of now, he's off of all medications. No ADHD meds, no ODD meds, and has been for almost a year. He's getting A and B honor roll in school even without the medications now. Maybe he grew out of it...??? *shrugs*

Children with ADHD have no impulse control whatsoever. Their brain says, "Hey! Do this!" and their body reacts. That's where the hitting comes in. They don't need a "reason", they just do it. It's a totally different thing than the "Kids will be kids" explanation. Siblings will fight, yes. I did it when I was growing up, and kids will continue to do it. Not all that do have ADHD or any other problems, it's just part of life.

And no, I never thought of my child having a "disability" at all. He had/has ADHD, but he was/is able to function at an age appropriate level on most days. As a matter of fact, he's running through the house now with a spare curtain tied around his neck being "Batman". :D
 
It's a relief to know that my husband and I are not the only ones going through this. It makes weekend visitations hard on the both of us because he needs to be supervised from the moment he comes over my house until the moment he leaves.



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