Re: Ex-wifes daughter
mci2750 said:
Thank you, Ukiah. My situation is that my husbands ex-wife has sole custody of their alledged daughter and now have recvd. paperwork stating she is a victim of the mothers boyfriends physical and attempted sexual abuse. Court states that my husband and alledged father of the child is an abandoning father (not true) but has not requested his prescence at trial. I'm pulling my hair out over this and want to know waht our avenues are. Any ideas or help would be more than appreciated.
First thing I would do is find out the court dates, and retain an attorney to get you started in what ever plan you have in becoming involved or proving he is/isn't the father.
Was paternity ever established? Has a parent/child relationship been determined? It doesn't sound as though there has been. So first thing, is to prove whether he is the father or not. If he is, he will have to explain the circumstances of his uninvolvement with the child.
Are you looking to be involved in this child's life? Are you attempting to gain custody from what you've learned of the situation? (Not to be nosey...) But IF your husband is the father, what are the circumstances of his uninvolvement? Is his name on the birth certificate? Does he pay support each month?
The questions you will be asked will be something along the lines of why after all these years (depending on age) is Why has he not been involved? Which is something a lawyer can address in the courts.