ADOPTION RIGHTS

[CAMOM]

MY SONS BIOLOGICAL FATHER AND I WERE NEVER MARRIED BUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT HE DID NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE PREGNANCY. WHEN HE FOUND OUT I HAD THE BABY ABOUT 6 MONTHS LATER HE WANTED TO SEE HIM. HE SEEN HIM APROXAMENTLY 6 TIME IN THAT FIRST YEAR. AFTER HE FOUND OUT I WAS GETTING MARRIED HE DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY SON. HE QUIT HIS JOB AND MOVED. WHEN WE WERE DATING I LIVED WITH MY MOM AND MY MOM STILL LIVES IN THE SAME HOUSE AND HAS THE SAME PHONE # SO HE COULD HAVE GOTTEN IN TOUCH WITH ME AND MY SON IF HE REALLY WANTED TO. WHEN I GOT MARRIED WHEN MY SON WAS 2 MY HUSBAND WANTED TO ADOPT. WE GOT A LAWYER AND RAN THE ADOPTION IN THE PAPER BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW WHERE THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER LIVED. HE DID NOT SHOW UP FOR THE COURT DATE AND MY HUSBAND ADOPTED HIM. NOW AFTER 10 YEAR NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT OR TRYING TO SEE HIM HE HAS GOTTEN A LAWYER AND WANTS TO GET HIS RIGHTS BACK. THIS IS VERY UPSETTING TO MY HUSBAND AND I BECAUSE MY SON DOES NOT EVEN KNOW THAT MY HUSBAND IS NOT HIS BIOLOGICAL FATHER.

THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT

 

[MySonsMom]

He will be wasting his money and time. If the adoption of your child was done correctly (which you had an attorney it most likely was) He will get no where. Once an adoption is finalized, that's it.

Don't fret over this, he will get no where. The only way he will be able to see this child is if you give him permission.

After 10 yrs, what nerve this loser has.

Good luck!