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My (birthmom) mom and I have been on again off again for 20 yrs, she would always pull back and I would wait patiently for her to come around again. She found me on FB a few yrs back again, we have been close ever since. She raised my sister that's 10 yrs younger, & always told me how it was so strange that the child she raised is nothing like her and I was just like her. My sister got mad at our mom over a yr ago, they never got along so it seemed no big deal but she meant it. She said awful things to our mom (realize heard 1 side) and never spoke again, then she blocked me on FB for no reason between us. Listening to my mom go thru the grieving process for a long time she finally came to the end and was mad at her for not appreciating the master degree mom helped her to get. And she was done w my sister, she gave my sister plenty of time to come back & no contact. My sister lives in TX.
Well my mom died unexpectedly a few days ago, now I guess I'm not next of kin and she is, she had the funeral planned the day we found out that she died. I don't get it, I don't know my role, my mom had only me listed as her daughter on FB means nothing I know but makes me feel good.
What is my role, I was the one she was close to & had a relationship with.
I'm devastated she was my everything she was my answers to all my questions in life & I loved every moment w her & listening to her and laughing w her, whereas the opposite is true for my sister who is in charge of everything.:'( My sister doesn't even have a clue how mom was wearing her hair these days or anything.
Should I go to the rest of the "planning" at the funeral home the day before the funeral that they have scheduled?? The funeral home said I couldn't come & see her bc the director would be out all weekend... what?!?!
If mom finally got to her will, which she passed at 67 & that's supposed to be 'natural causes' I want answers why, what took her life- my sister doesn't care ..but if she did the will who else would have a copy bc if it doesn't suit sister I could see it disappearing.
Thank u I'm desperate & none of my friends have been here before they don't know what I'm going they really
My (birthmom) mom and I have been on again off again for 20 yrs, she would always pull back and I would wait patiently for her to come around again. She found me on FB a few yrs back again, we have been close ever since. She raised my sister that's 10 yrs younger, & always told me how it was so strange that the child she raised is nothing like her and I was just like her. My sister got mad at our mom over a yr ago, they never got along so it seemed no big deal but she meant it. She said awful things to our mom (realize heard 1 side) and never spoke again, then she blocked me on FB for no reason between us. Listening to my mom go thru the grieving process for a long time she finally came to the end and was mad at her for not appreciating the master degree mom helped her to get. And she was done w my sister, she gave my sister plenty of time to come back & no contact. My sister lives in TX.
Well my mom died unexpectedly a few days ago, now I guess I'm not next of kin and she is, she had the funeral planned the day we found out that she died. I don't get it, I don't know my role, my mom had only me listed as her daughter on FB means nothing I know but makes me feel good.
What is my role, I was the one she was close to & had a relationship with.
I'm devastated she was my everything she was my answers to all my questions in life & I loved every moment w her & listening to her and laughing w her, whereas the opposite is true for my sister who is in charge of everything.:'( My sister doesn't even have a clue how mom was wearing her hair these days or anything.
Should I go to the rest of the "planning" at the funeral home the day before the funeral that they have scheduled?? The funeral home said I couldn't come & see her bc the director would be out all weekend... what?!?!
If mom finally got to her will, which she passed at 67 & that's supposed to be 'natural causes' I want answers why, what took her life- my sister doesn't care ..but if she did the will who else would have a copy bc if it doesn't suit sister I could see it disappearing.
Thank u I'm desperate & none of my friends have been here before they don't know what I'm going they really