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jess509
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What is the name of your state? Currently CaliforniaI have 2 boys and i was never married to the father but lived with him for 5 yrs. For the last year we have split time with the boys. i am orginally from Wa. state and Im moving back there soon. There are many more oppurnities for me there and I have more support there. Im acting in the best of the children and letting them stay with dad until I can get myself settled in the new state. We really dont want to get the courts involved and we are trying to do this on our own. I am going to be coming down to Ca. every few weeks to see my boys and Im wanting them to fly up on school breaks and summer. I guess Im just loking for suggestions on making the best out of an already terrible situation. I just dont have that much going on for me here and i feel like I can make better of myself back home meanwhile getting some things straightened out in my life. I still want to be as involved as I can because I can not just let my children go, they mean everything to me. But as of now, I am not the 'better parent' and as soon as I get a job and a place of my own and be surround by my support system, then I will be. and that is my goal right now. any suggestions??