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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland

I live in the State of Maryland.

There is a 15 year old boy that has been having issues with his mother. Because of this, she randomly kicks him out of the house and refuses to let him back in. This has gone on for over a year. His best friend lives next door, but their family does not have the means to support him. Because of this he hangs out at my house during this time and he has pretty much spent 28 out of the last 30 days at my house and has practically lived here for the last six months. Today, his mother called and said he needed to come clean the house and then leave. His mother is aware of where he is, and sometimes calls and tells me to come and get him. The reason she is doing this is because he doesn't want her doing pills (snorting them) in front of his little brother, and she allows his step father to beat his little brother and says nothing about it. When the 15 year old steps up to stop the abuse, he is thrown out.

Over this time, I have purchased his food, clothes (because she would not allow him to have his stuff), taken him to school, taken him to basketball practice and everything else that a mother does for their kid. I have four children of my own, but at 15 he is practically an adult (mentally).

The problem is that his mother still won't let him in the house, but she is demanding for him to move to New York and even mailed him a bus ticket, even though she lives about three blocks away. The reason for this time, he physically prevented his step dad from beating his brother. He doesn't want to move to New York because he is a straight A student here, he has enrolled in early college classes through an online college and will basically graduate high school and get his AAS in the same month (of course this is a couple of years away). He also has a part time job that he does not want to leave. His father is not in the picture either.

What are his options? Does he have to move to New York with a relative he doesn't know, or at 15 and has a stable income can he rent an efficiency apartment if the landlord is willing? Can he chose to live with someone he knows here? He wants to stay here since he has a room and everything he needs, does he have that option at 15?
 
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Proserpina

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Maryland

I live in the State of Maryland.

There is a 15 year old boy that has been having issues with his mother. Because of this, she randomly kicks him out of the house and refuses to let him back in. This has gone on for over a year. His best friend lives next door, but their family does not have the means to support him. Because of this he hangs out at my house during this time and he has pretty much spent 28 out of the last 30 days at my house and has practically lived here for the last six months. Today, his mother called and said he needed to come clean the house and then leave. His mother is aware of where he is, and sometimes calls and tells me to come and get him. The reason she is doing this is because he doesn't want her doing pills (snorting them) in front of his little brother, and she allows his step father to beat his little brother and says nothing about it. When the 15 year old steps up to stop the abuse, he is thrown out.

Over this time, I have purchased his food, clothes (because she would not allow him to have his stuff), taken him to school, taken him to basketball practice and everything else that a mother does for their kid. I have four children of my own, but at 15 he is practically an adult (mentally).

The problem is that his mother still won't let him in the house, but she is demanding for him to move to New York and even mailed him a bus ticket, even though she lives about three blocks away. The reason for this time, he physically prevented his step dad from beating his brother. He doesn't want to move to New York because he is a straight A student here, he has enrolled in early college classes through an online college and will basically graduate high school and get his AAS in the same month (of course this is a couple of years away). He also has a part time job that he does not want to leave. His father is not in the picture either.

What are his options? Does he have to move to New York with a relative he doesn't know, or at 15 and has a stable income can he rent an efficiency apartment if the landlord is willing? Can he chose to live with someone he knows here? He wants to stay here since he has a room and everything he needs, does he have that option at 15?


No, sorry. He lives where Mom says he lives. That really is all that matters. However, he can start informing people that he believes he's basically been abandoned. If that happens, child services can step in and really help him if that's what he needs.
 
Child services

You should contact child services regarding the mother's neglect.

Child services in our are have been there, several times. They told the 15 year old that as long as there is food in the house, and there are no marks on the child there is nothing they can do. When there are bruises, they make the kid say that he wrecked his bike and that he isn't hit. He is afraid that if he tells the truth, they won't do anythign and he will get it worse.

The biggest problem is, that if I can't find out some way to keep him here, the 15 year old will be on a Gray Hound bus in the morning. He doesn't know the person they are sending him to live with, but he will lose his job, and they told him that he would have to quit taking is college classes.
 

cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
The problem is that he is still 3 years under the legal age to move out without consent, and you do not have any legal standing to keep him there. Mom is his legal guardian, CPS has not seen any reason to remove him from the house, and Mom wants him living in NY with his relatives. That being the case, the chances are overwhelmingly good that he's going to be on that Greyhound in the morning, regardless of how either you or the 15 year old feel about it. Mom has all the power here and you have none.
 

Proserpina

Senior Member
Child services in our are have been there, several times. They told the 15 year old that as long as there is food in the house, and there are no marks on the child there is nothing they can do. When there are bruises, they make the kid say that he wrecked his bike and that he isn't hit. He is afraid that if he tells the truth, they won't do anythign and he will get it worse.

The biggest problem is, that if I can't find out some way to keep him here, the 15 year old will be on a Gray Hound bus in the morning. He doesn't know the person they are sending him to live with, but he will lose his job, and they told him that he would have to quit taking is college classes.



And please, for heaven's sake do NOT interfere with that schedule. Don't keep him at home against Mom's wishes - you do not want to be facing felony charges.
 

ecmst12

Senior Member
Also, it is VERY easy for a trained professional to tell the difference between a beating and a bike accident. The child simply saying that he wrecked his bike will not fool anyone if the injuries are not consistent with the explanation.
 

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