BM keeps moving

[Rvela]

What is the name of your state? Texas

I'll try to make this long story short as possible, but with our
BM "NOTHING" is simple.
BM lived at in a apt with some dude in nov 02.
late dec 02 she leaves him and moves back home.
early feb she married a different man and only she moves to his appt. Kids stayed at grandmas "to stay in the same school". Any way, at that point in time DH had to take her to court over denial of visitation, and the Judge ordered her to give "her" address, that is where DH is to pick up kids. (in order to inforce the decree, it had to be done to the "T". DH should be going to "her" address and not that of the kids)
Much to her disappointment She had to give the address.
and it was changed in the divorce papers. 2 months later....you guessed it, she is living back home with mommy; seperated from her new husband and verbally informs DH of "her" change of address back to her moms. Now a few months later....
yup...she has moved in with another man. And verbally tells DH of "her" change of address. And we have had problems with visitation again.(The address on the divorce decree still states the address of second , yet gone, hubby) So how in the h#ll does DH get his visitation inforced if the ding bat keeps moving and not documenting these changes of address with the divorce decree?

 

[VeronicaGia]

My guess is that technically, since she keeps him informed of her whereabouts, she's not in violation of the order. However, he needs to document all these moves and at some point go for 50/50 or possibly custody based on stability of the children.

 

[nextwife]

Wow! She's lived in almost as many places just since about '01 as I have in the past 43 years.

 

[Rvela]

well.....

technicly speaking, if DH were to appear at her "new" address and she does not open the door and let the kids go with dad,
She would not be in violation b/c the divorce decree states that is not her address.
Basicly that would mean that if all CP's didn't want NCP's to see their kids, all they would have to do is move, and not change the divorce decree? Causing NCP to attempt to pick up kids at the "wrong address". CP would not be in violation of anything if they were to go to the address listed in the divorce decree after "verbally" giving the new address for NCP to pick up kids.
If some one really nasty wanted to, they could.

 

[Rvela]

next wife:

She has moved approx 8 times in the last 3 years.
most people I know move that much in a lifetime. (with the exception of military families, she is not in the military)