Cant take much more (venting)

[kcs00]

What is the name of your state? Now TN

Most of you all know my story. Well Hubby and I have moved again to get away from his ex. She is now calling saying that "they" want to come and visit. I am tired of this woman. I tried everything to get along with her. We have moved 4 times to get away from her we moved to 4 different states and now here she is. The thing is that she uses the children. I am tired of hearing about her, her calling, everything. I just want to have my own life with my own family my husband and my child thats it. I am at the point to where I cant take anymore. I am seriously thinking of divorce.

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

What is the name of your state? Now TN

Most of you all know my story. Well Hubby and I have moved again to get away from his ex. She is now calling saying that "they" want to come and visit. I am tired of this woman. I tried everything to get along with her. We have moved 4 times to get away from her we moved to 4 different states and now here she is. The thing is that she uses the children. I am tired of hearing about her, her calling, everything. I just want to have my own life with my own family my husband and my child thats it. I am at the point to where I cant take anymore. I am seriously thinking of divorce.

My response:

Good for you!

This is what you get when you marry someone with baggage. You have no one to blame but yourself.

IAAL

 

[rmet4nzkx]

What is the name of your state? Now TN

Most of you all know my story. Well Hubby and I have moved again to get away from his ex. She is now calling saying that "they" want to come and visit. I am tired of this woman. I tried everything to get along with her. We have moved 4 times to get away from her we moved to 4 different states and now here she is. The thing is that she uses the children. I am tired of hearing about her, her calling, everything. I just want to have my own life with my own family my husband and my child thats it. I am at the point to where I cant take anymore. I am seriously thinking of divorce.

This is a board for legal advice, you have "vented" but have not asked a question.

HOWEVER your venting seems to indicate some desire on your part to keep your husband from his responsibility towards his children, possibly child support and visitation issues and sounds as if you have admitted to moving to continue this interference.

As a step parent, you have no legal part in the relationship between him and his children or to interfere with his responsibility. I make this assumption when you state that you have gone to extreems to avoid her and his children and your desire to: "I just want to have my own life with my own family my husband and my child thats it. I am at the point to where I cant take anymore. I am seriously thinking of divorce." Remember if you divorce you will be in the same position you have put her in.....

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My further response:

I love it when people go into relationships and marriages with their eye wide shut. It keeps my Practice busy!

IAAL

 

[nextwife]

If one marries someone who has kids from a prior relationship, annoying ex's come with the package. Moving doesn't solve anything, just uproots everyone.

 

[kcs00]

well the way I figure things is that she cant keep everytime I move my family. I really love my hisband but at some point this has to end. Her name comes up in house way more than it should. If he is not mentioning her and something she said it is someone in her family. In my opinion if that is somrthing that is over then why keep it up. I dont understand. If we were to split and I married someone else the life that i had with him would be over, no contact whatsoever. I guess i thought that this move would change things. this is the biggest move almost 800 miles from where we were. I am just fed up.

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

I am just fed up.

My response:

Good for you. What do you want - - a cookie?

Has anybody ever called you an "idiot"? If not, then let me be the first.

IAAL

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Has anyone looked at her threads? 36 of them and 34 about this same issue trying to interfere in the relationship between her husband and his children, lowering child support for 3 children and wondering why their mother is upset with her, BTW she and her husband had a child together 6 days before his divorce was final Not the first time she has wanted to vent and pretty much members have seen through her each time, I wonder why?

https://forum.freeadvice.com/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=482150

What is the name of your state? GA

Well lets start here my hubbys ex called this morning very early and wanted to speak to the kids and I told her that they were asleep and I would have them to call her back after they woke up. Well that wasnt good enough for her, so she decided that she would call almost everyone she/we knows and bug them because her children were asleep. Now I have people calling me telling me that I was wrong for not waking them, not to mention that we were up late watching movies. They are with us for 6 weeks out of the summer and what we do with them is our business. she couldnt accept the fact that I dont jump to her every command. Is there anything that I can legally do to get this woman out of our hair????????? someone please help, about to go crazy

the children are 11, 10 and 10 (twins) 2 boys and 1 girl. I know that was probaly hard on her now that part dont get me wrong, like veronicagia said 3 years is a very long time, she has had SOs but of course when things dont work out she is back to harass us. I want to know when ok enough is enough. Should someone speak to her about counselor me or my husband will not be the one to tell her this, her mother told me "that she has a temper" and this is not healthy for the kids, she calls, pretty much throws a fit.

What is the name of your state? Georgia

Let me first say that my husband has been divorced for about 3 years now and since then he has gotten a raise, we had a baby, and I am not working. His ex has recently starting working she quit working to file divorce papers to "increase" what she would be getting. She has a 2 bedroom apartment and there are 6 people living there 3 adults and 3 kids(my step-kids) and at times there are 10 people living there 4 adults and 6 kids. She is the only one working in the household. He was ordered to pay her attorney fees since at the time she wasnt working, I saw somewhere that he could fight it and I was wandering where and who he should contact about the attorney fees? Also would we have a good chance at winning the modification case?? Please help

07-30-2004, 11:59 PM
kcs00
Member
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Georiga
I argee with you MindyT. My husband pays 2000.00 per month for child support for 3 children, and the ex is not using it on the kids. She called today wanting more money for school supplies, and she got her check this week. They live in a trailer, a dirty one, she didnt have 20 bucks so they could go on a church trip. Yet she supports her 3 sometimes 4 sisters their 3 kids and boyfriends. There is no way that she will get another penny from us. Oh she also got 45,000.00 as a lum sum, so there is no reason why there isnt any money saved for college. Its all about budgeting.

What is the name of your state? georgia
I dont know if this question goes here but here it goes:
My husbands ex has issued a criminal trepass against me, when she asked me to pick up the kids and i did, when I got there she called the cops and told them that she did not want me at her house and she did not know I was coming to pick them up. She has also filed police reports that I have been harassing her by phone calls and the dates that she filed I was out of the state. I Ihave my plane ticket to show that I was on the plane on that date and time. Mu question is do I have a case against her or the police department for issuing it?

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

We saw through her .

IAAL

 

[kidoday]

If we were to split and I married someone else the life that i had with him would be over, no contact whatsoever.

Excuse me? You have a child with him correct? How could there be no contact if you married someone else? Would you keep the child away also?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

My response:

We saw through her.

IAAL

I have to agree, you are actually being kind! She is jealous because the mother actualy works to help support her children and she is too lazy to, but I prefer letting their own words convict rather than name calling, although I am becoming jaded the longer I am here

 

[kidoday]

We saw through her.

I saw through her, but I didn't see the druggie part. I did see gold digger and not wanting to share the 2000.00 a month in child support.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I saw through her, but I didn't see the druggie part. I did see gold digger and not wanting to share the 2000.00 a month in child support.

Maybe she doesn't want to have contact if she gets divorced herself because the DNA probably won't match

 

[nextwife]

She'd likely move again.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

She want's her hubby's ex's trailer most likely she is very jealous of that thar trailer