newstart90
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? MN or WI
A few brief facts...my husband passed away last summer and since then, his children are making my life pure h**l......they are refusing to accept the fact that their Dad loved and trusted me.
He had my name added to the deed to the home, with survivorship rights, with the understanding that I leave his children their portion in my will. He did NOT want his wife to be homeless, and I had invested about $50 K in the house and his care.
I have done this and explained it to his kids ( all "adults", BTW), by certified mail ( they refused to talk to me in person ), and the day after receiving the letter, one of the children filed a complaint with the police against me, accusing me of everything from murdering my husband to stealing the family dog.....
I am not worried about the investigation, because I DID NOTHING WRONG, but they are still harrassing me....driving by late at night, blaring car horns....dumping sugar in my gas tank, etc....I have called the police, but with no evidence......I really feel it is them, though....
I am considering moving out of state, just to get away from them, but I don't want them to know where I have moved to....nor do I want them to harrass my children when I croak.....
I know I can change my name ( makes me feel bad that I have to give up the name my husband gave me), but how can I avoid them finding out where my children live when my will goes through probate? They will get their inheritence when I go, but my children will get their share of my assets, also.
Any advice?
A few brief facts...my husband passed away last summer and since then, his children are making my life pure h**l......they are refusing to accept the fact that their Dad loved and trusted me.
He had my name added to the deed to the home, with survivorship rights, with the understanding that I leave his children their portion in my will. He did NOT want his wife to be homeless, and I had invested about $50 K in the house and his care.
I have done this and explained it to his kids ( all "adults", BTW), by certified mail ( they refused to talk to me in person ), and the day after receiving the letter, one of the children filed a complaint with the police against me, accusing me of everything from murdering my husband to stealing the family dog.....
I am not worried about the investigation, because I DID NOTHING WRONG, but they are still harrassing me....driving by late at night, blaring car horns....dumping sugar in my gas tank, etc....I have called the police, but with no evidence......I really feel it is them, though....
I am considering moving out of state, just to get away from them, but I don't want them to know where I have moved to....nor do I want them to harrass my children when I croak.....
I know I can change my name ( makes me feel bad that I have to give up the name my husband gave me), but how can I avoid them finding out where my children live when my will goes through probate? They will get their inheritence when I go, but my children will get their share of my assets, also.
Any advice?