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haiku

Senior Member
I have been lurking on another board and people are saying that they know lots of "kids" who have successfully sued thier parents for back due support.

Now in ALL the time I have hung out here, the legal powers that be say "NO", only the parent can sue.

So this thread on another non-legal forum is driving me nuts, and I have to control myself from actually registering to answer it, because these people are saying they know lots of adult kids who have done it!

So what is the official deal!?



:confused:
 


I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
haiku said:
I have been lurking on another board and people are saying that they know lots of "kids" who have successfully sued thier parents for back due support.

Now in ALL the time I have hung out here, the legal powers that be say "NO", only the parent can sue.

So this thread on another non-legal forum is driving me nuts, and I have to control myself from actually registering to answer it, because these people are saying they know lots of adult kids who have done it!

So what is the official deal!?



:confused:


My response:

Which State?

IAAL
 

haiku

Senior Member
ARRRGH!!!

I knew you would do that!!! the minute I did it!!! (Yes, don't tell me-"why did you, then?")

I am in Connecticut. For the purposes of the question, I was thinking more nationally, as who knows where all these posters are from?

Now can you tell me? Pretty please? With sugar on top, AND a cherry....
 

I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
My response:

Well, there are no "national" laws. Child support is a "State" issue, and such laws are different from one State to the next. So, as the old saying goes, "One size [does not] fit all."

However, in California, while child support is for the "benefit" of the minor child, the child, either during or after minority, does not have "legal standing" to sue for support arrearages. Remember, the issue of child support is either an agreement between both parents and signed by the judge, or it's a mandatory guideline amount ordered to be paid by the NCP to the CP for the "benefit" of the minor child(ren). [See Marriage of Comer, 14 Cal.4th at 510, 516, 59 Cal.Rptr.2d at 156, 160, and Marriage of Dancy, 82 Cal.App.4th at 1156-1157, 98 Cal.Rptr.2d at 785]

Although a child support obligation runs to the supported children and not the custodial parent, the children generally are not the "real parties in interest" in an execution (or other) action to enforce child support arrearages--i.e., the parent obligee (or the local child support agency on the custodial parent's behalf) is the real party in interest with standing to enforce the order and collect the arrearages. [Marriage of Utigard (1981) 126 Cal.App.3d 133, 143, 178 Cal.Rptr. 546, 551; see also County of Shasta v. Smith (1995) 38 Cal.App.4th 329, 335, 45 Cal.Rptr.2d 52, 55--"custodial parent, not the child, has the beneficial interest in collecting arrearages in child support"]

The rationale is that an action for accrued child support is "presumed" to be one for reimbursement to the custodial parent. While the children are the direct beneficiaries of the underlying award, the custodial parent is the direct beneficiary (real party in interest) of an order securing arrearages. [Marriage of Utigard, supra, 126 Cal.App.3d at 143, 178 Cal.Rptr. at 551; County of Shasta v. Smith, supra, 38 Cal.App.4th at 335, 45 Cal.Rptr.2d at 55]

IAAL
 
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I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
My further response:

Hey, Haiku - -

What is the following poetic example called?

Leaping flying fish!
Dancing for me and my boat
as I sail home.

IAAL

P.S. I hope you know I was only kidding with you, above.
 

haiku

Senior Member
Oh IAAL! you are singing my song! baby...

that is traditional japanese poetry, in 17 syllable verse form, consisting of 3 metrical units of 5, 7, and 5 syllables.

:D

(and if we must be miserable, let it be together!....)
 

joooseph

Junior Member
What about the parents that sue the grown up kids for financial support

Good Afternoon everybody,

Will that be possible even in the case that the parent did not support the kid when little? I am asking regarding the state of Texas. If so, what actions could the son take to avoid being sued to financially support the shameless parent.

Sincerely,
Joseph
 

Zigner

Senior Member, Non-Attorney
Good Afternoon everybody,

Will that be possible even in the case that the parent did not support the kid when little? I am asking regarding the state of Texas. If so, what actions could the son take to avoid being sued to financially support the shameless parent.

Sincerely,
Joseph

Please start your own thread. This thread's older than my dog!
 

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