Thanks casa but...
Our agreement strickly states under Shared Parental responsibility :
both parties agree to abide by all aspects of shared parental responsiblity as defined in FS chapter 61. Speciifically, both parents will sharel, on timely basis, all important info they may receive regarding education, medical, extra ciricular activites.
Florida statutes specifically states: shared parental responsiblity means court-ordered relationship where BOTH parents retain full parental rights and responsibilites with respect to child and BOTH parents confer with each other so that major decisions afecting the welfare of child will be determined jointly.
If mother keeps it up an "A" student will be a "D" student and maybe lose her spot in the magnet high school she worked so hard to get into. Over the phone tutoring just doesn't help and Mom is too lazy to take her to school early for tutoring with teacher. What do we do?
We don't get any information unless we call school or get child to bring it over or tell us she did something wrong.
I have a long post with a good student turning bad posted prior to this one.
Visitation: is frequent and liberal and then their is a set schedule detailing major holidays for specific purposes..and yes it is very specified and there is way it can be interpreted incorrectly other than to give us hard time.
If child needs tutoring, why can't step mom take her for one hour and bring her back if we are willing to drive 20 miles to do so. Mom is on her way home from work in Tampa and will get home 1/2 before child. I don't see harm in that except for her stupid insecurities.