Please spare us, this is getting out of hand, you did not go and get an attorney like I told you yesterday.
You are a control freak and your approach is abusive at best. You only spent $20k on your divorce attorney? Let me guess, your attorney fired you, right? You have no justification for your obsession.
Please take all of this and find an attorney that will represent you, it will take a while to find someone, so use your energy for that.