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artbuc

Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? DE

For $25 per year, DCSE offers a variety of client services for enforcement and legal assistance. To get these services, you have to sign a "Certification By Custodian" which seems to give up all of your rights. Eg, here is para 7:

"I agree to have DCSE act on my behalf to enter into negotiations with the NCP or his/her attorney to settle any child support claims I may have. I further request DCSE to file any necessary legal documents against the NCP. Under Delaware law, a Deputy Attorney General who handles my case is deemed to represent the state agency, DCSE, and not me individually."

We had this agreement in place when the NCP recently filed a motion to quash a secondary wage attachment. The CP (my nephew) wanted to file his own response but was told by DCSE that he had given up his right to that when he signed the Certification By Custodian. The only way the CP can communicate with the DAG is by calling DCSE customer service who in turns sends an email to the DCSE case worker who in turn contacts the DAG. We tried this for about 4 days and promptly revoked the Certification By Custodian agreement.

I wonder who would possibly want to give up all of their rights to DCSE for what appears to be pretty poor service?

Right now the NCP is in contempt of the support order with arrears having increased $551 over the last 10 months to almost $3500.
Per para 7 above, can DCSE cut a deal with NCP to accept a lump sum settlement on the arrears without input/approval of CP? I know they can't do this to my nephew now because he canned the agreement, but could DCSE have done this when the agreement was still in place? If the DAG is representing DCSE and not the CP, he/she may be happy to take $1000 right now to wipe out the $3500 arrears. Thanks.
 
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CSO286

Senior Member
Thanks. I have explained why I ask questions on behalf of my nephew but people either forget or don't care.

And we have explained why we prefer not to deal with third parties-- They dont have all the facts and often misinterpret the advice given, or explain it to the actual parties involved incorrectly, leading to lots of extra legal hassles.

OP, invite your nephew over for dinner and have him sign up for his own account. We'd be happy to help in that situation.
 

artbuc

Member
And we have explained why we prefer not to deal with third parties-- They dont have all the facts and often misinterpret the advice given, or explain it to the actual parties involved incorrectly, leading to lots of extra legal hassles.

OP, invite your nephew over for dinner and have him sign up for his own account. We'd be happy to help in that situation.

My nephew has given me Durable Power of Attorney so I can handle his business which I do. I understand the facts and he doesn't. Also, I don't misinterpret advice or explain it incorrectly. Even if my nephew could articulate his question properly, he would not understand your answer and I would still have to interpret it.

Don't worry, I won't bother you self-absorbed folks again.
 

CSO286

Senior Member
My nephew has given me Durable Power of Attorney so I can handle his business which I do. I understand the facts and he doesn't. Also, I don't misinterpret advice or explain it incorrectly. Even if my nephew could articulate his question properly, he would not understand your answer and I would still have to interpret it.

Don't worry, I won't bother you self-absorbed folks again.

Well, bravo.

Take your self-righteous overzealous meddling self right to our front desk and feel free to ask for a refund.

Have a nice day.
 

artbuc

Member
Well, bravo.

Take your self-righteous overzealous meddling self right to our front desk and feel free to ask for a refund.

Have a nice day.

Sorry, I promised myself I would not respond again but your post go can not go unanswered.

My nephew is impaired due to oxygen deprivation at birth. His ex has a lawyer who is just as dishonest and sleezy as she is. When my nephew comes to me and asks for help because he can not afford a lawyer and has no idea what her motion means, I should tell him "Sorry, I don't want to meddle in your affairs. Get yourself an account on FreeAdvice and do the best you can." He does construction labor for a living. Work has been slow so he will have plenty of time to interact directly with you. Hopefully he will be able to tell which responses are sarcastic and which are well-meaning.

Read some of the responses to people who come here and can not spell, construct clear sentences or frame their questions properly. Invariably someone mocks them. There are a few excellent people here whom I respect very much for giving their time and expertise so freely. Unfortunately, there are too many others who seem to get their jollies by ridiculing people. Perhaps you are the ones who do not do well in your private practice and need other ways to bolster your ego.
 
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stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Thanks. I have explained why I ask questions on behalf of my nephew but people either forget or don't care.

Dude - you mentioned it once, a year ago. If you want us to remember (or care), maybe you shouldn't expect us to go searching for your history.

My nephew has given me Durable Power of Attorney so I can handle his business which I do. I understand the facts and he doesn't. Also, I don't misinterpret advice or explain it incorrectly. Even if my nephew could articulate his question properly, he would not understand your answer and I would still have to interpret it.

Don't worry, I won't bother you self-absorbed folks again.

Yet, he's apparently quite capable of representing himself? Seriously?

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? DE

Nephew will appear in Family Court next Monday morning to petition for support for his two children. His ex will have an attorney. Nephew will represent himself. I am preparing his documents and opening statement. Could you please give me some tips? For example,

Sorry, I promised myself I would not respond again but your post go can not go unanswered.

My nephew is impaired due to oxygen deprivation at birth. His ex has a lawyer who is just as dishonest and sleezy as she is. When my nephew comes to me and asks for help because he can not afford a lawyer and has no idea what her motion means, I should tell him "Sorry, I don't want to meddle in your affairs. Get yourself an account on FreeAdvice and do the best you can." He does construction labor for a living. Work has been slow so he will have plenty of time to interact directly with you. Hopefully he will be able to tell which responses are sarcastic and which are well-meaning.

Read some of the responses to people who come here and can not spell, construct clear sentences or frame their questions properly. Invariably someone mocks them. There are a few excellent people here whom I respect very much for giving their time and expertise so freely. Unfortunately, there are too many others who seem to get their jollies by ridiculing people. Perhaps you are the ones who do not do well in your private practice and need other ways to bolster your ego.

Sorry, but your nephew will NOT have you to rely on in court. You don't get to play his lawyer. And therefore, he HAS to learn how to deal with his situation. Or, someone has to help him pay for a real lawyer.
 

artbuc

Member
Dude - you mentioned it once, a year ago. If you want us to remember (or care), maybe you shouldn't expect us to go searching for your history.



Yet, he's apparently quite capable of representing himself? Seriously?





Sorry, but your nephew will NOT have you to rely on in court. You don't get to play his lawyer. And therefore, he HAS to learn how to deal with his situation. Or, someone has to help him pay for a real lawyer.

Yes, I can not go into Family Court. At the May 5, 2010 support hearing, I prepared his case and went over it with him many times. His ex went in with her sleezy lawyer and presented her typical case full of lies and forged documents. For the most part I anticipated what she would do and had evidence to debunk her case. I organized everything for the Commissioner so she could easily find the right documents. Nephew did get confused and lost a few minor points but overall prevailed in a big way. So yes, nephew can and has represented himself if someone does the prep for him.

My health is declining and I want to get nephew in a position to defend himself since he will NEVER be able to afford a lawyer. This brings me to the original purpose of this thread. I thought the $25 per year legal services offered by DCSE would be the answer. However, after reading the fine print and seeing first-hand how the process works, I no longer think DCSE will help my nephew. I was hoping someone would answer my questions to either confirm my concerns or help me understand that DCSE can and will help my nephew, ie put his interests ahead of their own.
 
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stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Yes, I can not go into Family Court. At the May 5, 2010 support hearing, I prepared his case and went over it with him many times. His ex went in with her sleezy lawyer and presented her typical case full and lies and forged documents. For the most part I anticipated what she would do and had evidence to debunk her case. I organized everything for the Commissioner so she could easily find the right documents. Nephew did get confused and lost a few minor points but overall prevailed in a big way. So yes, nephew can and has represented himself if someone does the prep for him.

I hope you realize that, if his ex and/or her lawyer realize that you have been doing all of this for him - YOU could be dragged up on charges of practicing law w/o a license. Yeah, that's illegal.
 

artbuc

Member
I hope you realize that, if his ex and/or her lawyer realize that you have been doing all of this for him - YOU could be dragged up on charges of practicing law w/o a license. Yeah, that's illegal.

Not illegal in Delaware although it is considered in contempt of the DSC and is punishable. I am not practicing UPL according to the DSC. I am not representing myself as a lawyer not do I claim to have any particular legal expertise. I am not interpreting law or giving legal advice. I am simply organizing nephew's info for presentation to the Court.
 

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