HUD-1 said:
There can be no secondary liens with a DIL. (ie no oustanding condo fees etc) Also, get in writing an agreement that the lender will not pursue a deficiency judgment if you enter into a DIL. What shows up on the credit report depends on how, or if, the lender reports it to the credit bureau.
Good advice. The DILs in my jurisdiction have great long recitations on them about what the arrearage is and what the property is worth and that it is done voluntarily etc. etc.
This, of course, is to try to forestall a lawsuit where the borrower has paid (for example) 29.5 years on the mortgage and misses two payments. In such a case, obviously, the mortgage lender would be getting lots of gravy.
Q: Also, does a D-I-L require money?
A: Ask the mortgage lender this question. Generally, the answer is no, but if they think they can get some money, they will try.
If the mortgage lender will let you DIL, why don't you sell it? They obviously want to work with you or they would've simply foreclosed.