Ex-husband harrassment

[smccray]

I have been divorced for 2 years. My ex-husband moved in with someone as soon as the judge signed our divorce papers. For nearly nine months, he lived with her unmarried with her 2 minor children and took my son there for his weekends. I am seeing someone and have traveled with him a little. My ex is threatening to take my son away (AGAIN). Can he continuously threaten me with no repurcussions? He has already filed 5 contempt charges and all were thrown out by the judge. He then signed some changes to the custody and visitation papers on the advice of his attorney. This was just 2 months ago. Can the fact that I travel with my boyfriend and spend the night at his apartment the weekends my son is with his daddy, affect my custody or be reason for my ex to try and take custody away from me? I have sole physical custody. He stated at the divorce that the child belonged with me and as recently as June stated in front of a judge he believes the child belongs with his mother. But, can he continue to verbally threaten and get away with it?

 

[MySonsMom]

What you do when the child is not with you (visiting him) is none of his business. (as long as it is legal etc) The only thing he is doing is threatening you. Ignore it/him. He is full of sh*t.

 

[smccray]

Thank you. MySonsMom. I feel the same way after suffering mental and emotional abuse by him, I have a right to life.

 

[MySonsMom]

Thank you. MySonsMom. I feel the same way after suffering mental and emotional abuse by him, I have a right to life.

Take control of YOUR life and do not allow him to harrass/abuse you any longer. Try not to let him affect you with his threats..I know it's hard but you do not have to put up with it. Limit your contact with him. Limit your communication to email or letters. That always seems to lower the harrassing words. Good luck!

 

[poohsldy]

I am having a similiar problem like this poster is having, but mine involves my husbands EX-wife. I live in Pa. and she and our children (husbands children)live about 1 mile from us. Anyways ever since my husband and I got together she has been harrassing me. My husband is a police officer and a few years back she cost him the chance of getting a job in another state by calling the officer in charge of his file and telling multiple lies. Then she started verbally abusing me calling me everything under the sun, telling me I wasn't good enough to be around her kids and that they didn't want to be around me.Then she started putting this stuff in writing and either sending through mail or giving it to the kids when they came to visit. My husband works a full time job and a part time job just to pay child support and have money for us to have a place to live. The support is based on a higher income then he makes from both jobs. The EX has tried to get us thrown out of our apt. and now she claims she was responsible for my husband not getting a police job from another city this came in a letter to us today. My husband was #1 on the civil sevice list for the city, but he was over looked and then sent a letter that he did not qualify. She claims it is because of her that happened. She also claims we are lying to the kids and that she didn't know he worked full time and that she would see him back at domestic relations for more money. Last time he was there they were awared of his income and it did not support raising child support.This new job would have increased the support and if she did cause him to loose it is there anything we can do to keep her from ruining our lives????