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My grandaughter who has a 3 year old son, met and married a man who had been married twice and has a 5 year old son. My daughter had worked with the man before he met her daughter and this man through conversations at work alerted my daughter that this man was not someone she would like to see her daughter start dating. He is a very controlling person bordering on obsessive. He had wanted to meet my grandaughter and asked my daughter what she thought about him going out with her and who knows possibly ending up marrying her. My daughter told him that her daughter was old enough to make desicions on her own however she advised him that her daughter was a very self centered jelous natured person and would not accept his son. She also told him that due to his past marriages ending in divorce due to his controlling nature that she did not think it a good idea to get involved. Of course it ended up that she went out with him and the 2nd date became pregnant with his child. My daughter was furiouos when they ran away and married.
My grandaughter has a very low self esteem and this man knows just how to push her buttons. He started the controlling by not allowing my daughter to see the new baby unless he was with him. He will not allow my grandaughter to leave the baby with my daughter altho his mother is allowed full access any time, any where to the new baby. His stepson, My grandaughters son she brought into the marriage, is 3, he is treated and told he is only a step child by the mans 5 year old son and the mans mother. a He is treated cruelly emotionally and the little boy is afraid of him, tho I do not think he physically abuses him. He does whip him and scream at him for doing things his own son gets away with. It is a constant battle with my grandaughter and her mother about her rights to see her grandchildren. Her husband was heard telling my grandaughter to tell her mother that she would never get to see or visit his son and if she continued to what he calls harrass him, he would not see the 3 year old. What can be done, this man is alienating my grandaughter from her familly, mentally abusing my great grandson and letting his son terrorize this child. The child is at this time allowed to spend the week end with his grandmother, but this control freak will put an end to that shortly. It is distressing my daughter to the point that all she does is cry. And the little boy does not want to return to his own house after he has spent the week end, he cries to stay and says "Bubba" his stepfather does not want him there. This is unbelivable, what is happening.
My grandaughter has a very low self esteem and this man knows just how to push her buttons. He started the controlling by not allowing my daughter to see the new baby unless he was with him. He will not allow my grandaughter to leave the baby with my daughter altho his mother is allowed full access any time, any where to the new baby. His stepson, My grandaughters son she brought into the marriage, is 3, he is treated and told he is only a step child by the mans 5 year old son and the mans mother. a He is treated cruelly emotionally and the little boy is afraid of him, tho I do not think he physically abuses him. He does whip him and scream at him for doing things his own son gets away with. It is a constant battle with my grandaughter and her mother about her rights to see her grandchildren. Her husband was heard telling my grandaughter to tell her mother that she would never get to see or visit his son and if she continued to what he calls harrass him, he would not see the 3 year old. What can be done, this man is alienating my grandaughter from her familly, mentally abusing my great grandson and letting his son terrorize this child. The child is at this time allowed to spend the week end with his grandmother, but this control freak will put an end to that shortly. It is distressing my daughter to the point that all she does is cry. And the little boy does not want to return to his own house after he has spent the week end, he cries to stay and says "Bubba" his stepfather does not want him there. This is unbelivable, what is happening.