chrissypark
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This situation may sound petty to some people but trust me it's awful. I am a single mother of two teen girls ages 15 and 13. I put myself through nursing school and do not have a criminal record. I have always provided a good lifestyle and home for my children. The problem started almost two years ago. My oldest daughter Jenny was 13 a cheerleader, happy, did well in school, lots of friends, one best friend in particular. I’ll call her “Anna” for privacy purposes. I have always taken an active part in my childrens lives. By this I mean extensively talking to them, knowing what was going on with them and their friends, etc. I’m not saying my daughter Jenny tells me everything...what child does? Anyway Jenny and Anna were best friends and Anna was at our house all the time. She was a part of our family. Anna would confide in me about her family problems and her abusive dad. A year and a half went by and I started noticing changes in Anna’s behavior,....vulgar language, lying, hanging with the wrong crowd, bullying. I tried talking to her and that didn’t work, and I was concerned that my daughter Jenny would soon be acting the same way. I knew I would have to end this friendship and Jenny would probably hate me for it! Before I had to make the decision to end the friendship, Jenny came to me and said she didn’t want to hang around with Anna anymore and listed the above reasons and also included drugs and alcohol. I supported her and was proud of her for being mature enough to make the decision. This is where my nightmare begins. Immediately after the termination of friendship, Anna became enraged. She started nasty rumors about Jenny and tried to fight her almost everyday. She harassed her constantly over the internet and at school. Anna’s mother and father called me and cursed, threatened me. Sounds crazy huh?....all because Anna didn’t want to be her friend. A month or two went by and this continued. On March 2004 I was at work and my daughter called me and said Anna was sending her threatening messages on the internet. I said just block her so she can’t and I will be home in about 30 minutes. When I came home I saw Anna’s dad sitting in his car and Anna was walking away from the front door of my house. I asked Anna what was going on. She told me she had just beat Jenny up. I told Anna to come with me because I wanted to talk to both of them. Jenny opened the door and her hair was disheveled and she had mud on her clothes. I calmly talked to both of them and thought maybe we had reached an agreement. Jenny told Anna that she didn’t want to fight. I also asked her why she would disrespect me and come to my house and do this. She didn’t have an answer. I then asked her why her father was her and she said he wanted to make sure no one jumped in when she fought Jenny. The police came and I turned away from both of the girls to greet the officer and Anna attacked Jenny again.....face punches, slaps, etc. Jenny was helpless and couldn’t fight back. The cop just stood there and didn’t move or say anything so I was hysterical and grabbed Anna and pulled her off of Jenny. I demanded the cop do something and he said there was nothing he could do because she was a minor. The dad denied bringing her to my house and they took his word on that. I asked to speak to the Sergeant and when he arrived he gave Anna a ticket for assault. He then told me he could but wouldn’t at this time arrest me for hurting Anna’s neck when I pulled her off of Jenny. Anyway the ticket against Anna was dismissed, I never even got to tell the judge my side. My daughter had multiple cuts, knots and bruises on her face, and Anna never even got a scratch. The police then went after me and tried to file felony charges of injury to a child. They claim I gave her whiplash. The detective later called me and told me the case was dismissed because there was an eyewitness who saw the incident and said I did not act in anyway to hurt Anna. About a month later I received a suponea
to appear before the Grand Jury on felony injury to a child. I called the detective and she said they decided to send it to the GJ because the father threw a fit. I was upset...I am a nurse and I could lose my career, go to jail. My daughters life was awful. Anna and her friends would leave nasty, cruel, notes and drawing in her locker, telling her how ugly and fat she was. Which she isn’t, she’s very pretty and thin. Jenny would come home from school crying everyday. Anna would threaten her everyday. By the way this girl is a lot bigger and stronger than Jenny. There was an end of the year field trip and Jenny had to call me to come and get her because Anna was trying to fight her again. I reported this girl dozens of times to the campus police and principle and no one would help me. My daughter didn’t even try out for cheerleader again because this girl and her friends told her they would yell obscenities at her during tryouts. The school year ended and I thought maybe things would cool off. Over the summer Jenny and her sister went to the mall, movies, swimming, etc. and Anna and her group would be there and yell, curse, try to fight, intimidate my daughter. Anna even went as far as to threaten my youngest daughter who was 12 at the time. It is to the point now that Jenny can’t go anywhere without me. She can’t even take a walk through the neighbor hood (They live 5 blocks up the street.) I had to take Jenny out of public school because this girl told so many lies and has intimidated the other girls that no one will be friends with Jenny. Everyone is cared of ANNA. The principle wouldn’t help me....NO ONE WILL HELP ME! It was so bad at one point my daughter talked about suicide. I even had to buy pepper spray so my daughter could defend herself if the girl cornered her. They constantly call the house and tell her “your fat” the police won’t do anything. I filed numerous reports on her and her father because he constantly harasses me....he calls my job and makes up lies. If my daughter gets a new boyfriend he will call the boys mother and make up awful lies about our family and Anna will find away to contact the boy and make up gross, nasty lies about Jenny . Last week the dad came to my house and caught me getting out of my car and threatened to kill me and then tried to get me to fight Anna who is now 15. I called 911 and they wouldn’t take a report because he said he didn’t do it. Even though they heard him yelling at me. A couple of hours later that day me and my girls were outside in the front yard and Anna walks in our yard screaming and cursing....her dad is circling the block. She starts walking toward Jenny and Jenny sprays pepper spray and it gets in her own eyes rendering her helpless. I get in front of Jenny and the girls hits me twice above my right eye with her fist. I then sprayed pepper spray and it stopped her and got in my eyes too. I barely made it in the house, the girls called 911 and the cops came. I had a lump on my head the size of lemon which turned into a huge black eye. The cops filed a report as Anna as the victim because she said she was just walking and I ran across the street and attacked her. I am now up on felony charges again and now the dad says that I showed his daughter pornography while she was at my house. I t is ridiculous and I can’t believe I am going through this. This man is smearing my name all over town and the investigators told me the believe me, but they are turning it over to the Sherif’s office because that’s what the dad wants and the investigator there says she is going to reopen the last case and she will do something to me this time! WHAT DO I DO?undefinedWhat is the name of your state? Texas
This situation may sound petty to some people but trust me it's awful. I am a single mother of two teen girls ages 15 and 13. I put myself through nursing school and do not have a criminal record. I have always provided a good lifestyle and home for my children. The problem started almost two years ago. My oldest daughter Jenny was 13 a cheerleader, happy, did well in school, lots of friends, one best friend in particular. I’ll call her “Anna” for privacy purposes. I have always taken an active part in my childrens lives. By this I mean extensively talking to them, knowing what was going on with them and their friends, etc. I’m not saying my daughter Jenny tells me everything...what child does? Anyway Jenny and Anna were best friends and Anna was at our house all the time. She was a part of our family. Anna would confide in me about her family problems and her abusive dad. A year and a half went by and I started noticing changes in Anna’s behavior,....vulgar language, lying, hanging with the wrong crowd, bullying. I tried talking to her and that didn’t work, and I was concerned that my daughter Jenny would soon be acting the same way. I knew I would have to end this friendship and Jenny would probably hate me for it! Before I had to make the decision to end the friendship, Jenny came to me and said she didn’t want to hang around with Anna anymore and listed the above reasons and also included drugs and alcohol. I supported her and was proud of her for being mature enough to make the decision. This is where my nightmare begins. Immediately after the termination of friendship, Anna became enraged. She started nasty rumors about Jenny and tried to fight her almost everyday. She harassed her constantly over the internet and at school. Anna’s mother and father called me and cursed, threatened me. Sounds crazy huh?....all because Anna didn’t want to be her friend. A month or two went by and this continued. On March 2004 I was at work and my daughter called me and said Anna was sending her threatening messages on the internet. I said just block her so she can’t and I will be home in about 30 minutes. When I came home I saw Anna’s dad sitting in his car and Anna was walking away from the front door of my house. I asked Anna what was going on. She told me she had just beat Jenny up. I told Anna to come with me because I wanted to talk to both of them. Jenny opened the door and her hair was disheveled and she had mud on her clothes. I calmly talked to both of them and thought maybe we had reached an agreement. Jenny told Anna that she didn’t want to fight. I also asked her why she would disrespect me and come to my house and do this. She didn’t have an answer. I then asked her why her father was her and she said he wanted to make sure no one jumped in when she fought Jenny. The police came and I turned away from both of the girls to greet the officer and Anna attacked Jenny again.....face punches, slaps, etc. Jenny was helpless and couldn’t fight back. The cop just stood there and didn’t move or say anything so I was hysterical and grabbed Anna and pulled her off of Jenny. I demanded the cop do something and he said there was nothing he could do because she was a minor. The dad denied bringing her to my house and they took his word on that. I asked to speak to the Sergeant and when he arrived he gave Anna a ticket for assault. He then told me he could but wouldn’t at this time arrest me for hurting Anna’s neck when I pulled her off of Jenny. Anyway the ticket against Anna was dismissed, I never even got to tell the judge my side. My daughter had multiple cuts, knots and bruises on her face, and Anna never even got a scratch. The police then went after me and tried to file felony charges of injury to a child. They claim I gave her whiplash. The detective later called me and told me the case was dismissed because there was an eyewitness who saw the incident and said I did not act in anyway to hurt Anna. About a month later I received a suponea
to appear before the Grand Jury on felony injury to a child. I called the detective and she said they decided to send it to the GJ because the father threw a fit. I was upset...I am a nurse and I could lose my career, go to jail. My daughters life was awful. Anna and her friends would leave nasty, cruel, notes and drawing in her locker, telling her how ugly and fat she was. Which she isn’t, she’s very pretty and thin. Jenny would come home from school crying everyday. Anna would threaten her everyday. By the way this girl is a lot bigger and stronger than Jenny. There was an end of the year field trip and Jenny had to call me to come and get her because Anna was trying to fight her again. I reported this girl dozens of times to the campus police and principle and no one would help me. My daughter didn’t even try out for cheerleader again because this girl and her friends told her they would yell obscenities at her during tryouts. The school year ended and I thought maybe things would cool off. Over the summer Jenny and her sister went to the mall, movies, swimming, etc. and Anna and her group would be there and yell, curse, try to fight, intimidate my daughter. Anna even went as far as to threaten my youngest daughter who was 12 at the time. It is to the point now that Jenny can’t go anywhere without me. She can’t even take a walk through the neighbor hood (They live 5 blocks up the street.) I had to take Jenny out of public school because this girl told so many lies and has intimidated the other girls that no one will be friends with Jenny. Everyone is cared of ANNA. The principle wouldn’t help me....NO ONE WILL HELP ME! It was so bad at one point my daughter talked about suicide. I even had to buy pepper spray so my daughter could defend herself if the girl cornered her. They constantly call the house and tell her “your fat” the police won’t do anything. I filed numerous reports on her and her father because he constantly harasses me....he calls my job and makes up lies. If my daughter gets a new boyfriend he will call the boys mother and make up awful lies about our family and Anna will find away to contact the boy and make up gross, nasty lies about Jenny . Last week the dad came to my house and caught me getting out of my car and threatened to kill me and then tried to get me to fight Anna who is now 15. I called 911 and they wouldn’t take a report because he said he didn’t do it. Even though they heard him yelling at me. A couple of hours later that day me and my girls were outside in the front yard and Anna walks in our yard screaming and cursing....her dad is circling the block. She starts walking toward Jenny and Jenny sprays pepper spray and it gets in her own eyes rendering her helpless. I get in front of Jenny and the girls hits me twice above my right eye with her fist. I then sprayed pepper spray and it stopped her and got in my eyes too. I barely made it in the house, the girls called 911 and the cops came. I had a lump on my head the size of lemon which turned into a huge black eye. The cops filed a report as Anna as the victim because she said she was just walking and I ran across the street and attacked her. I am now up on felony charges again and now the dad says that I showed his daughter pornography while she was at my house. I t is ridiculous and I can’t believe I am going through this. This man is smearing my name all over town and the investigators told me the believe me, but they are turning it over to the Sherif’s office because that’s what the dad wants and the investigator there says she is going to reopen the last case and she will do something to me this time! WHAT DO I DO?undefinedWhat is the name of your state? Texas