What is the name of your state? new jersey my husbands ex wife has gotten restraining orders against him (11 in the past 3 years) he has been arrested more than once on violation of these restraining orders. She lies about him breaking the order and he gets arrested and then she doesn't go to court or it gets thrown out . Now she has filled false complaints against me. She called our home and threatened to kill my ******* son and to break my legs. I called the police made a report and the next day changed my phone number and filled a complaint for harrassment. She turns around and files 2 false complaints against me, so she has leverage in court. Her complaints are false she states that i ran her off the road (she doesn't have a police report for that) when i was home all day with my son, husband and sister and she says i called her and threatened her when i never did. We went to court and she wanted me to drop my complaint i wouldn't now it's going to trial in our town. The judge said the only way to resolve this is if one of us goes to jail. I don't want to go to jail over something i didn't do, She also lied to the judge and said she has a protective order against me and she doesn't does this give me any leverage? What should i do drop the charges or proceed with the trial? HELP!!!